You got yourselves a great partner, since what if she needs music that you don't like at all? A bigger house, soundproof rooms and all that! 🙂
Listening to music while working is something that I rarely do. Although I tell myself to try more, I don't. Perhaps because 1) I don't have more than laptop speakers at my desk, 2) I don't want to have my hifi earphones on my head all day long, 3) I am in video/voice meetings too often, and when not that, in 1-on-1 calls and ... and ... I guess for many reason, with the last one: I usually am drawn into the music, regardless the volume, which result in just the opposite to what should happen 🎉🥳 To 'solve' the latter, I suppose I could play music that isn't much to my liking, leaving my attention to whatever it needs to be directed to. But I don't like to feed my speakers with music I don't like. What if it turns out speakers have feelings of their own? 🙂 I suppose I belong to the group of people who like to work in total silence. Well, total. I love it when I hear birds singing.
Ambient and Ambient are not the same. As in all the music genres. I know exactly what you mean, one piece is goosebumps time, and another piece is 'if not stopped right now, I may jump from the highest building around'. The other day someone shared a DJ recording with me, which I truly like. In our conversation he shared another one that may have sounded very similar from a supervisual standpoint, but it isn't. Happens all the time, especially with music that sounds same-same when not listening.
What about ambient with a beat? Try this one
https://soundcloud.com/so_unreal/sounds-of-sonar-by-lanoche?si=415a38b8a4af43e2b475b34a357ca374&utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing
Orrr this one, less beats
https://soundcloud.com/so_unreal/lanoche-live-at-100-psych-20-04-2018?si=285f0b1a9a694245ad1406bab565d021&utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing