I'm so sorry you've experienced so much grief and loss in your life due to the medically tyrannical system we live in.
It's true that it's forced onto families in many school districts. CPS can and will get involved for lack of compliance to the medical requirements. It's not a choice when a real threat like this exists. It amazes me that the people who work for CPS see nothing wrong with certain aspects of their job, specifically regarding forcing medical compliance onto families who do not wish to participate, with threat of removing the child from the household.
How many lives do they ruin? Countless. The agency should be defunded and disbanded, The self righteousness that it is founded on does far more harm than good. I thought about writing that I would have homeschooled my children, but that I sent them to public schools, where most of my most serious problems originated, is just another way that I didn't listen to myself. I knew they were unhappy and uneducated there. I knew I felt powerless and miserable there.