What you have experienced cannot be explained! How could your parents hurt you so much? As I read, I tried to understand their position, but unfortunately they have no excuse to act like this. Even if they were right, you are a grown man capable of making your own decisions. Hopefully and everything can be resolved soon. Regards
And I think they are wrong about my wife. Five years in and I am happier with her than when we started, that was NOT my experience in my first marriage