RE: A House or a Home?

I think that you hit the nail on its head with that home that you are considering Lady Lizzie. My reason is that you stayed in your home for 50 years, and the new home is 50 minutes away. Co-incidence? No, as there is no such thing. Rather a good sign.
Caregiver or frail care, doesn't matter, as long as there is help available during an emergency. Fortunately, you and I are still young, but things can become dicey when we reach the 90s. !LOL
A year should be more than enough for the preparations.
May you and you sons also have a blessed new 2025.

!PIZZA and !LUV