Due to my health conditions, I can get some home care assistance from the VA.
Just do it I say. Maybe to tackle the more (I know I will sound sexist) the manly orientated jobs around the house, lamnmowing etc. Then gradually once she sees it being beneficial she might let them do more for her jobs around the house so to speak.
Not without her permission. I still have to live with her. LOL
I see what you mean though. It all depends on how this next round of meds goeas for me. So far we have made progress. Who knows, I could be dancing circles around this place in a year or two. HAHA
hehe oh well you need to learn to butter her up!