Friends: A Lifetime Bond

Hello, Hive! Hello friends! Welcome to my blog. It’s me @deznats, and this is a once in a lifetime bonding with my friends that I will share here on Hive😊❤️

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Having some group of Friends has a lot of stuff going on, specially when some of my group of friends finds a way to make things more fun and makes each one of us laughed so hard that some of us will fall to the ground laughing😆.

I only have a few group of friends. From my hometown to my high school classmates or schoolmates and now at senior high school. Having a lot of friends sometimes fun and dangerous at the same time, because some wants to invite me just to party or at night driving motorcycles wondering around and getting chased by some random street dogs in some villages.

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Telling jokes around each other or bully someone at the group for a daily basis may seems not funny in some peoples perspectives, but I have a group of friends that has been with me since elementary, and they’re my childhood neighbors, including @kaijen.

Experiencing childhood mostly at home really is boring backthen, because only in school I can play with my friends. Eat with them, and going home with them. It will always be a memorable bond with them.

When I went to high school at SLMCB (St. Louise De Marillac College of Bogo), my auntie thought that it is better for me because I’m a Altarserver. Most of the year changed my mental health and my personality.

When I was in 7th grade, I was too focused more on studying and learning to speak English because it is a private and a religious school, most of the students there speak english😩. But when I went to 8th grade. That’s where I got problems on my mental health including my sleeping schedule, so my auntie thought I was doing great in high school.

Most of the time when I was in highschool, there are always plenty of events at the school campus, and even though I always participate on some activities. I always end up having a low grade, and at my 8th grade is where I went rogue because of having low grades.

Always spending my time cutting classes with friends and go to the computer shop to play online games and go somewhere to drink liquor and that was the first time I got drunk and felt guilty after because I asked myself why who’d a servant of God drink and make bad decisions.

I was influenced by my friends in 8th grade (I am not blaming them). I was curious of what it feels like to get drunk.

Everything was fine, until the pandemic Corona virus or also known as “Covid-19” in the year 2019 spread across the globe. The whole country was implementing a lockdown for the safetiness of the people.

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I always ask God to forgive me from all of my sins, and bless me with his graciousness to give me and also my family good health. Back then I learned only few of the lessons due to home learning.

I always hangout with my childhood friends to help answer each other’s modules, and after finishing 1 subject we play 3 online games to calm ourselves from being stressed.

During Christmas Mass, me and my Altarserver friends gather together counting down the time just to yell, and after that we will go home. And at some point some group hated me because they thought I was betraying them just because they heard some fake news from an unknown person, they told me that I was backstabbing them.

I just ignored them, until one day I had a choice to leave that toxic friendship all behind, but not long enough. I met different faces that are in a different religion.

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They accepted me like I was one of them, but I didn’t leave being a roman catholic. I just hangout with them the whole summer and as th only one being a catholic, I respect their religion. I even try to participate in their bible sharing and attend to their masses to show them that they can trust me as a friend.

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After 3 months hanging out together, sharing each other’s problems and also giving each other comfort most importantly to their beautiful and beloved mother who dearly past away last year.

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After a week I distanced myself from them because of some rumors that spread around my church and as a friend I do not want them to get involve after all they've been through. So it cost a friendship to keep each other away from negative feedbacks from those people who don't accept different beliefs because of selfishness.

And now that I am a Senior High School Student, I met new friends that gave my frustrating self a smile on my face, friends are like family even though we are not even related, we rather listen to our minds and hearts to open it and not selfish of giving kindness and love to somebody most importantly to those who are having a hard time on something or losing a very special person and also to those dealing battles inside their heads.

That's all guys thank you so much for reading my platform see you next time☺

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People really come and go in our lives, but at least, hindi natatapos ang pagdating nga mga bagong kaibigan. It's good that you found another set of friends that gives color in your life again.

True, but sometimes when we start to focus on our selves for a better future we need to accept that some will leae us but we still need to focus on us

It is very nice that you have found comfort in faith. It is just the beginning, there is still a long way to go with good and not so good friends, enjoy it.

thanks, it's really fun when theirs no pressures and problems that can cause stress when we hangout with our friends especially family

What a fascinating bond with friends you have @deznats