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A few days ago this week I went out to see the lights of Manta, something I wanted to do since they made the lighting of the lights in the city, tradition that they perform years after years, thus welcoming Christmas 🎄✨💕☺️ however something that changes in the life of a woman is when we become a MOTHER, is the fact of friendships .... because the outings are no longer the same or to the same places that one frequented with the same ones, now a diaper bag has become an essential "accessory", and it is common that your child is your faithful company 😬🙄🫣 what is always recommended is that we surround ourselves with friends who are at the same stage as you, that is to say that they are already mothers or fathers and it is something that I do not question because it makes sense 😬 however when you emigrate from country it is not easy to make friends. ... I will not deny that I have 2 acquaintances who like me are already mothers and our firstborns are contemporary... they are only months apart, but I do not know if it's me or what... but as the years go by and I am older, I do not trust anyone... And when it comes to choosing friendships I am more selective, I mean open up completely, talk and tell everything without reservation 🙄 so much about me, as well as what I think on various topics is not something I do with anyone.
Now the point I want to get to is that even though I have a daughter and I am in the sweet wait of the second one today I am quite grateful to life for being able to have these 2 little people you see in the pictures, both single and childless 🙂😁 and yet we are quite close, she is my husband's cousin but they grew up together, personally I get along so well with her that I usually introduce her as if she were my sister in law and the other one is a great friend we met here and became quite close to us and our family, they know that going out with me is also going out with my daughter and well not everyone likes to deal with kids when they are not parents yet, but they adore my little girl so when we go out they are always attentive and horita I am in the last weeks of pregnancy going out with me is more complex I am slower walking 😬😁 and my daughter with 2 years old, running, wanting to grab or touch everything is her passion, so imagine how is going out with me. .. 😬😬😬😬 and still good we always share, go out and enjoy, to have their friendship is beautiful especially because with them there is total confidence and talk about any topic without reservation is spectacular and what one seeks in a friendship, while it is true that getting and having authentic and genuine friendships is a blessing, it is not something you get around the corner, and time so does not show them since we are children and we grow up, so if anything to be grateful for is to have such special people in our lives.
Hace unos días atrás de esta semana salí a ver las luces de Manta, cosa que quería hacer desde que realizaron el encendido de las luces en la ciudad, tradición que realizan años tras años, dándole así la bienvenida a la Navidad 🎄✨💕☺️ sin embargo algo que cambia en la vida de una mujer es cuando nos convertimos en MADRE, es el hecho de las amistades... pues las salidas ya no son iguales ni a los mismos sitios que uno frecuentaba con las mismas, ahora una pañalera se ha convertido un "accesorio" imprescindible, y es común que tu hijo sea tu compañía fiel 😬🙄🫣 lo que siempre suelen recomendar es que nos rodiemos de amistades que están en la misma etapa que uno, es decir que ya sean madres o padres y es algo que no cuestionó pues tiene mucho sentido 😬 sin embargo cuando emigras de país no están sencillo hacer amistades... no les negaré que tengo 2 conocidas que al igual que yo ya son madres y nuestros primogénitos son contemporáneo... solo se llevan meses de diferencia, pero no sé si soy yo o que... pero a medida que pasan los años y tengo más edad no en cualquiera confío... Y a la hora de escoger amistades soy más selectiva, Es decir abrirme totalmente, hablar y contar todo sin reserva 🙄 tanto de mi, así como lo que pienso en los diversos temas no es algo que haga con cualquiera.
Ahora bien al punto que quiero llegar es que pese a que tengo una hija y estoy en la dulce espera de la segunda hoy por hoy estoy bastante agradecida a la vida por poder contar con estas 2 personitas que ven en la fotos, ambos solteros y sin hijos 🙂😁 y aún así somos bastante cercanos, ella es la prima de mi esposo pero crecieron y se criaron juntos, en los personal me llevo tan bien con ella que suelo presentala como si fuera mi cuñada y el otro es un gran amigo que conocimos acá y se hizo bastante cercano a nosotros y nuestra familia, ellos saben que salir conmigo es salir también con mi hija y bueno no todo el mundo le gusta lidiar con niños cuando no son padres aun, pero ellos adoran a mi pequeña así que cuando salimos siempre son atentos y horita que estoy en los últimas semanas de embarazo salir conmigo es más complejo soy más lenta caminando 😬😁 y mi hija con 2 años de edad, correr, querer agarrar o tocar todo es su pasión, así que imagínensen como es salir conmigo... 😬😬😬😬 y aún así bueno siempre compartimos, salimos y disfrutamos, contar con su amistad es hermoso en especial porque con ellos hay total confianza y hablar de cualquier tema sin reserva es espectacular y lo que uno busca en una amistad, si bien es cierto que conseguir y contar con amistades autenticas y genuinas es una bendición, no es algo que se consiga a la vuelta de la esquina, y el tiempo así no los demuestra desde que somos niños y vamos creciendo, así que si algo hay que agradecer es tener personal tan especiales en nuestras vidas.
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This is very interesting, you are a very good writer. Moreover, there's nothing like being around your love ones. I can relate to your feelings.
Never the less, the fact is that, those friends were not just comfortable with your little kid and your condition. You created the atmosphere, it simply because you such a good person to them that made them to close their eyes to all other odds. When someone is good to you, all that matters to him/her matters to you too.
That is just the principle of life.
This post reveal how amazing you are inside. Keep it up
Thank you very much for such a nice comment dear @qidos it has been nice to read a big hug in the distance. ☺️✨🎄
@mili2801 You are always welcome, I wish you a very easy labor day.
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Gracias amiga bella @maridmc 😘
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Que bellas fotos amiga, un bonito paseo navideño, que bella está esa barriga, ya casi ♥️