Relationship is pivotal to human existence, growth, development and sustainability.
You can have the nicest house, the coolest car, or the most costly dresses in the world, but if you don’t have love and someone to share it with, none of that matters.
Finding the right and perfect person to be in a relationship with can be challenging, but the efforts you put into making your relationship successful will pay off in the end.
Here we go with some of the tips:
- IDENTIFY WHAT YOU NEED IN A RELATIONSHIP
The first step to having a successful relationship is knowing what you desire. What do you need and want in your partner? What are your must-haves and deal-breakers?
Be trustful with yourself so you can be honest with your partner. More so, be honest about your intentions.
This means being honest about your feelings, wants, and needs.
It also means being honest about your expectations and what you’re willing to do to make the relationship work.
Honesty is the foundation the foundation of any strong relationship.
- RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER
In every successful relationship, mutual respect is paramount. If you don’t respect your partner, it’s unlikely that your relationship will be successful.
One way to show respect is by listening to each other and valuing each other’s opinions and suggestions.
Another way is respecting and being sensitive to your partner’s feelings, to be honest with each other and keep each other's promises.
Further more, remember that everyone makes mistakes; it’s how you handle those mistakes that really matters.
- MEET IN THE MIDDLE AND COMPROMISE
In every relationship, there will be times when you don’t see eye to eye. That’s okay! But what’s not okay is when one person persistently tries to dominate and control all the time.
To have a successful relationship, both parties need to be willing to meet in the middle and compromise.
Ability for one also to be able to adapt to change is an important part of any relationship. People and circumstances are constantly changing, so you must be able to go with the flow.
That doesn’t mean you have to be a doormat, but it does mean being willing to compromise and seeing things from your partner’s perspective too.
- BE KIND AND FORGIVING
Even if you’re always unkind and unforgiving towards people, your partner must be an exception. Persons that are unkind and unforgiving are weak people with damaged psychology.
There is nothing proper and good about having such a disposition. It will definitely scare people away from you.
Learn to be forgiving and overlook certain things, it's the peak of maturity. Kind and forgiving people are attractive, especially to those they show kindness.
Allow your partner to get away with something, that’s why or she is your partner.
- BE ON THE SAME PACE WITH YOUR PARTNER
Human beings, obviously, can develop their capacity and widen their mental horizon, perspective, and view s
If you value your relationship, you have to follow and catch up with your partner or bring your partner up to the same level of awareness and consciousness.
You can’t possibly allow your partner to attend workshops, seminars, conferences, and training alone. He/she will change eventually and suddenly and will find you boring and backward. His or her conversation will definitely change too. He/she will want to have new friends and will be open to other better and challenging options.
The relationship may not be successful if there are no common interests and aspirations.
Both partners must understand each other and be on the same page more often than not.
- COMMUNICATE
Communication is pivotal and “life support” of every relationship including that between man and God.
There has to be constant and frequent communication among people in a relationship; it doesn’t necessarily have to be something important.
Talk about everything: what you want, how your day went, who got you angry or made you laugh – just everything.
Keep constant communication. Let your partner get used to your voice; connect with him/her.
- DON'T TAKE YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED
Some people are many times carried away by the availability and simplicity of their partners hence, take them for granted.
They don’t realize how relevant the person is in their life until when the person is no longer accessible and available.
Be proactive; show gratitude and celebrate your partner; make him/she feel wanted, special and important.
Remind him/her of how amazing and wonderful he/she is and how your life would’ve been incomplete without them.
- DON'T SUFFOCATE YOUR PARTNER
Some people feel they have to know every single thing that goes on with the person they are in a relationship with.
Some will go as far as dictating for the person how he/she should live or behave.
This is wrong. Every human being has the right to his/her individuality and privacy. No matter how much he/she loves you, he/she will always gasp for breath if you are too present in his/her life or control.
Offer your partner a little space; not too much, before he/she feels lonely and rejected. And, don’t compel him/her to do your bidding.
- TRUST AND INTIMACY
You won’t go far in a relationship if there’s no confidence in or reliance on your partner. Also, there has to be a feeling or atmosphere of closeness and openness between partners; not necessarily involving sexuality.
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