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RE: Through times of hardship: While I breathe, I hope.

He’s not receptive to my suggestions right now. The property is owned by his father, so I cannot evict them. Those people also somewhat get along with his father as well. I can’t do anything about them, I’ve already suggested they remove my older abusive cousin but he keeps coming back. They’re not good for him, but he can’t see that right now. This situation is just frustrating.

I do hope as he gets help, that maybe he’ll realize what needs to be done. But I can’t live his life for him, I can only make suggestions to him. It’s up to him to listen or not. He’s an adult only 4 years junior to me. At some point he needs to make decisions himself. My therapist made the same point that being in this environment with those people would halt or even reverse my progress in therapy. We grew up with essentially the same trauma, so I know it’s affecting him.

This whole thing is a mess and I will visit and talk with him from time to time. I just won’t be living with him because of those people. Even though the place is falling apart, I was fine staying there with just him.

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