In education we say entry behavior is more or less your introduction to a subject matter, that is how you introduce your topic and how you make the learners get to love what you about teaching them.
Now having said that I ask again what was your entry behavior to marriage that's if you are already married and what will be your entry behavior to marriage if you are single and hoping to have a home soon?
There are many entry behaviours to marriage this days, example having sex, getting pregnant before marrying to see if you will be productive, using love charms to hypnotize a man thereby keeping him in your custody, sending a girl to school so as to marry her thereafter, picking up a man, educating him, giving him a job then force him to marry you, marrying a man or woman out of pity, I could go on and on but let's have a break and talk more.
If the above mentioned were your or will be your intending entry behavior into marriage then i tell you, you have missed it.
I am doubting the fact that one could probably still get married amidst all this but my question is would it last? Will you get to enjoy the marriage?
God wasn't a fool when he asked us to keep our body holy and clean because that's were he dwells(1st Corinthians 6:19-20).
On the other hand sending a girl(woman) or boy(man) as the case maybe in other to settle with them isn't the right thing to do, times changes, so people will definitely change too. I wouldn't advice even my enemy(that's if I have at all) to try such.
The best entry behavior to Marriage is Christ, get him involve in your marriage plan and procedure and you will see things work on your behalf.
If you went into marriage or you about entering into marriage because of wealth, fame, beauty, its still a big pity, remember beauty is deceitful (Proverbs 31:30).
Have you ever thought of getting married to a wealthy man but before you know it Boom his wealth vanishes after marriage because why, he never got it the right way?(Proverbs 13:11)
No matter the entry behavior you want to put up, its only God that gives a spouse(Proverbs 19:14)
Hope you are blessed and you have learnt?
If you made the mistake already, God is ever ready to help you, just go to him in prayers.
May God help us all and me as well Amen.
Remain blessed.
From the writing Desk of one ready to make it well in Marriage.
I remain
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Great message @glotokens, thanks for sharing, a marriage is a trinity between a man, a woman and God, without the latter hardly would it succeed