As long as I am happy, I am sorry for your opinions my dear. If the world like, let it not adjust.
According to my elder sister, life na per head. And yeah, you are right, it's not ok to hide and never will it be ok.
If nobody blows your trumpet, blow it! If you don't have a trumpet? Blow whistle, at least that is cheap and easy to come by plus navigate.
If I can’t blow whistle?🏃♀️
Blow trumpet