Hello! You have read this thoroughly, I appreciate it! I dislike drama , but I can become very dramatic if I burst after a long time of hiding my emotions. I do not show emotions very often and I have a hard time understanding them in myself and in others. On the other side I can pick up the energy of others quite fast, which is a paradox somehow.
Alone time is vital for me. It took me a while to accept that I am an introvert. We live in a society where extraversion is seen as the norm and those who are different stand out as the misfits.
Liars....I admit that I do no trust people easily because I have been burned so many times. I work on that and in my heart I do believe that the majority of people are good and have great intentions, it is me that has to work on my own inner wounds to be able to not look back at the sour apples I happened to taste more than once in my life.
Heart feelings do matter for me, but I express that concern differently, through the language of facts and logic. And heart feelings need to be expressed with the heart, not with the mind. Another thing I am working on .
The abuse is obvious in the first meetings with anyone. It is us who decide to not notice it, hoping it that it will change. The abuse and the abuser won't change if they believe that what they do is right. Usually the abuser had their own wounds and this is why they cause suffering. At one point in our lives each of us was the abuser and each of us was abused, in one form or another. To become aware and work on ourselves can bring greater peace .
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I am curious which type you are