Actually true motivation is the one that comes from within us and not that which comes from outside. Only you can truly motivate yourself. We most at times beat ourselves so hard anytime we don't seem to achieve certain things in life forgetting that we are victors in certain things, the formula you gave here is beautiful, when we fail we should be happy as well because we will be getting experiences that we may never get from school and if it so be that we succeed, then we should be proud of ourselves because not everyone succeeded in what we achieved
Exactly 😊