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I have learnt to talk less and listen more
one thing i will like to add to it is people that think they are.... what should i call it, yes blunt.
they say they say the truth and the way it is even if it hurts someone. saying the truth is good but like you said
the right place and time to talk
someone may ask something like "how was my performanc?" the person at that moment needs to hear something encouraging even if the performance wasnt good. words like
The music was good, i love how you carry yourself on the stage, the instruments were good too. then later on after all the exictment have died down. "hey mary, you did well but i think you can improve" pointing out the mistake of the person. At that moment proper correction has taken place and learning will be made easy.
sorry for my long words, Love from #dreemport
You're right, We don't have to keep quiet at all times, that's why it's important to think before we talk. Yeah, there's a way we can make correction without hurting the person but thinking about the right thing to say..
Thanks for your beautiful contribution, I appreciate you for stopping by.
You are welcome