I think it comes from having an open mind, being able to see the many options and potential outcomes.
Yes, I think so too. I don't think it's much of a matter of trauma for me, or at least not that I'm aware of at the time. But I try to reassess periodically and change my mind if needs be. Nothing more dangerous than a closed mind. Thanks you for this lovely comment. :)
Aw, glad it came across as lovely! I'm always worried that my attempts at suggesting self-compassion will come off as preachy.