Thank fuck for dreams.
Nah, I wasn't going to. I don't know that it's good or helpful to cry. I think for some people, it might be, but it's also a slippery slope that can keep you mired in sorrow and grief for longer than you need to be (obviously, there's always a sense of grief, but I do think crying can slow down the process of making sense of life after loss).
I agree. I don't like to wallow. People tell you it's okay to cry etc and it's healthy but I'm not sure that's true or good for me. It's more of a slippery slope, and grief should be just one aspect of my life not all of it.