The desire to do better in life is a very natural thing. But several times we become failures in life and consider ourselves unlucky. The feeling is not good when we see others achieving success with less effort. We call them talented people who can do it. We have a strong belief that they can do whatever they want.
I also believe that there are talented people among us, but there are only a few, and most of us are just ordinary people. When it comes to my case, I am a below-average person (honestly), and I have many shortcomings, although, in the eyes of my friends, I am an invincible and lucky person. Let me explain how and why they think so. Why is their perspective different in my case when it comes to me, even if I am a below-average person?
As a student, others judge a student by the exam result, and based on it, they give someone the tag talented person, although I don't think it's the right judgment. I was a person who was very bad at memorizing, and it was a disadvantage for me. I know most of the students complain that their memorizing power is not good, especially the so-called ordinary students, but compared to them, my condition was much worse. Many times I learned my lessons, and when my teacher asked me, I became clueless about what to answer. How do you feel when you become a failure again and again after making efforts again and again? Do you know how bad the feeling is to be a below-average person? I could not memorize well, and in that case, nothing was in my control. It was not only for study; it was the same in my daily activities also. For study, I was criticized by my private tutors, and for daily life, I was criticized by others. Many times I became sad about my studies as I am serious about it. I was not so emotional person since I became a little more mature, but I can still remember I cried just for not having the memorizing power as well as ordinary students. The feeling was too bad, and I can still feel that when I remember those days, although except for my mother, nobody knew about the feeling.
Maybe my stubborn nature didn't allow me to stop, and I was desperate to do better. I can remember I used to stick with my table almost the whole day to keep practicing continuously. It was hard for me to believe in myself because of my past experiences, but I think continuous practice made me better. The difference was that normal students needed one-time effort; I needed multiple-time efforts for it. I had the desire to suppress others, and with time I figured out more strategies to improve myself, and that gave me a breakthrough, but the side effect was I became a working human robot. It was just a matter of time before I became better and made brilliant results a natural thing for me. Other students started to categorize me as a talented person. But the reality was I was a below-average person. The thing that made the difference was my willpower and my hard work. I also want to give some credit to my stubbornness, and I don't think of it as my weakness as it's my strength. So it's just a message to everyone that talent is not the only thing to determine the outcome. If you are talented, then it's good, but if you are not, then it's not necessary to be an obstacle on the way to success. You can cover up with your willpower and hard work.
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Some great reasoning here!
I think people are too judgemental and get too attached to labels:)
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Hmm. Hard work paid us maximum time and I have experienced it. It's the thing made me realize that I can do better and overcome my shortcomings if I am determined to overcome. Although it's a single incident, it was inspiring and helped me in many cases later. It was a spark of my life.
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When one's stubbornness is for a good reason, I don't think it is a bad one. Some people are stubborn and will not relent when it comes to making success while others are only stubborn for the wrong purpose.
People have different perspectives about us and many times, we are the only one who knows what we did to get to where we are and for whatever reason they are saying otherwise, it's their business, not mine.
That's also true. I think the reason of stubbornness decide the positive or negative outcome. In my case, I used it in the right direction and it was good for me.
Hmm. You are right. We know ourselves better than anyone and nobody can understand us fully except family members.
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