According to the speaker, he said that change is as a result of the information we feed our mind over time.
This is really valid, Hope. Sometimes, change can be brutal, painful and scary. However, like you mentioned, we are the boss of our minds and we can control our subconsciousness however we want.
A friend of mine (a pastor’s child) grew up in a “perfect” home. He was a good boy until he got to the university and started smoking. The addiction didn’t just start. He started gradually. First, he allowed himself (his mind) to get influenced by his surroundings. He got into it, and that changed his life. He changed from a good boy to a smoker.
Instead of filtering the bad information, he consumed them. I’m pretty sure his friends must have told him to try it just once, “try this thing. It’ll make you feel good.”
That’s just it my love. Our mind is just like a new born baby, it automatically gets use to the one who breastfeeds him or her whether or not it’s the mother or not.
Too bad your friend didn’t get to filter the information that were coming in and virus got in.
Thanks for your thoughtful contribution Fave 🥰