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Everyone knows the old saying.... “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence”. I mean... just because it “looks” like someone else has it better, doesn't mean that's the case. I'm curious to know what this means to you. Tell us how you might apply this mindset in your daily life.
How many discussions have been generated and continue to be generated by having different points of view and never conforming to the phrase: everyone looks according to their history, experiences or way of seeing life.
The fact of being unrepeatable leads us to consolidate ourselves as unique beings, this being unique leads us to think, feel, get excited in a different way in front of situations that we are looking at closely, concluding in different opinions.
Sometimes, for not giving the arm to twist as they say we make enemies for life with friends and family just for not stopping and say if you're right ... how many problems and enmities would have been saved.
If it is of children the conflict happens and passes quickly, if it is of adolescents they can go to the fists, now the adult is supposed to have already come a long way and can accept different points of view, although in many cases conflicting situations occur.
Well, in the adult it is considered that there is more information about that we are all different and different situations can be remedied, it happens that we err with that statement ... there is a concept such as empathy that in many occasions we assimilate it but does not reach that deep understanding that being empathic is not that we will solve everything to others we can simply accompany without getting involved in the feelings of others, so far it has been my way to apply it more carefully and what a lot of appreciations I have been saved.
In daily life after so much and I apologize for the times that I used to think this way to put myself on the side of the one who supposedly was right...it turns out that now in my daily life I have learned to flow in this type of seeing things, I have understood that each one looks at what he wants to look at, his field of action is perhaps directed to do it that way, giving to understand that this is and so it is...perhaps no one can refute him.
Then, to come to the understanding that what is the point of arguing or what is done with arguing and falling into low vibrations for our point of view to be valid, I apply what the doctor recommended me: ACCEPT, so we do not get involved in the feeling of another, others ... following our day in peace, although our point of view is that ...NOOO always the grass is greener on the other side of the fence....
To arrive at this is not always simple, it is to go through different stages of consciousness to make it part of each one.
It fits very well the phrase of Thales of Miletus very famous and that leads us to self-knowledge:
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“The most difficult thing in the world is to know oneself, and the easiest thing to speak ill of others”.
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Todo el mundo conoce el viejo dicho... «La hierba siempre es más verde al otro lado de la valla». Es decir... sólo porque «parezca» que alguien lo tiene mejor, no significa que sea así. Tengo curiosidad por saber qué significa esto para ti. Cuéntanos cómo podrías aplicar esta mentalidad en tu vida cotidiana.
Cuantas discusiones se han generado y se siguen generando por tener puntos de vista diferentes y nunca amoldarse a la frase : cada quien mira de acuerdo a su historia, vivencias o manera de ver la vida.
Por el hecho de ser irrepetibles nos lleva a consolidarnos como seres únicos, esto de ser únicos nos lleva a pensar, sentir, emocionarse de manera distinta ante situaciones que se están mirando de cerca, concluyendo en opiniones diferentes.
A veces, por no dar el brazo a torcer como se dice nos enemistamos por toda la vida con amigos y familiares simplemente por no detenerse y decir si tienes razón...cuantos problemas y enemistades se hubieran salvado.
Si es de niños el conflicto ocurre y pasa rápido, si es de adolescentes pueden irse hasta los puños, ahora el adulto se supone que ya ha recorrido camino y puede aceptar puntos de vistas diferentes, aunque en muchos casos ocurren situaciones conflictivas.
Pues bien, en el adulto se considera que hay más información acerca de que todos somos diferentes y se puede subsanar diferentes situaciones, pasa que erramos con esa afirmación...hay un concepto como es la empatía que en muchas ocasiones lo asimilamos pero no llega ese entendimiento profundo que ser empáticos no es que le vamos a resolver todo a los demás simplemente podemos acompañar sin involucrarnos en los sentimientos de los demás, hasta ahora ha sido mi manera de aplicarlo con más detenimiento y vaya de què cantidad de apreciaciones me he salvado.
En la vida cotidiana después de tanto y me pido perdón las veces que llegaba a pensar así para ponerme del lado de quien supuestamente tenía la razón...resulta que ahora en mi vida cotidiana he aprendido a fluir en este tipo de ver las cosas, he entendido que cada quien mira lo que quiere mirar, su campo de acción quizás esté dirigida a hacerlo de esa manera, dando a entender que eso es y así es...quizás nadie puede refutarle.
Entonces, llegar al entendimiento de que para què discutir o que se hace con discutir y caer en vibraciones bajas para que nuestro punto de vista sea válido, aplico lo que me recomendó el doctor: ACEPTEMOS, así no nos involucramos en el sentimiento de otro, otros...siguiendo nuestro día en paz, aunque nuestro punto de vista sea que ...NOOO siempre la hierba es más verde al otro lado de valla...
Llegar a esto no siempre es sencillo, es pasar por diferentes estadios de conciencia para hacerlo parte de cada uno.
Encaja muy bien la frase de Tales de Mileto muy famosa y que nos conduce al autoconocimiento:
“Los más difícil del mundo es conocerse a uno mismo,
“Los más difícil del mundo es conocerse a uno mismo,
y lo más fácil hablar mal de los demás”.
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