Well, the truth is at some point we can get tired which is not a bad idea as we also need to rest and recharge, then try again when we are in a much better position to give people listening ears.
Regardless if your friend feels you should be her saviour when she can't save herself then I'm sure there are others that are ready to talk things without feel like you should be their saviour.
Makes so much sense. I’ll continue for the “others”.