I remembered the "Atomic Habits" book as I was about to reply. We sometimes mistake the problem to be the conditions around us: but unknown to us that we are the ones that made those conditions. The daily habits brought about the conditions we are seeing, then the self deceit, blaming other things or people rather than seeing ourselves as the major source.
I must admit that this is a great mindset shift bro💯.
You know, it's a form of entitlement mindset to blame other people and things for everything rather than take responsibility and making the changes desired to be seen. We're always better off being proactive instead.
Taking responsibility and doing the needful seems to be harder, blaming others seems a lot easier.