I went on to tell her that I would love to have a certain amount of money before I get married and I would want the person I want to marry to also have a decent amount of money
I wish to ask you what your plans are if life happens to you after possessing the desired amount of money vis a vis your statement below:
I grew up as a child who experienced riches while growing up and then life happened to my mother and we became broke
If life happens to me, I will have to start again and try to make relationships with people who can help me.
And this is why it is best that if life happens to you, it doesn't happen to both of you