Soy diseñadora de profesión nunca he ejercido, me gradué en diciembre del 2018, en mayo del 2019 comencé a trabajar en un restaurante como ayudante de cocina en ese momento ganaba buen dinero pero el trato era terrible el administrador era muy déspota, maltrataba verbalmente a todos los trabajadores y ya no aguantaba los malos tratos, en ese mismo año conocí al que ahora es el padre de mi niño, en ese entonces me habia aferrado a el aunque las cosas no empezaron muy bien por problemas de salud que el presentó primero le dio culebrilla, después hepatitis lo cierto es que yo continue con él y en octubre quede en embarazo y por esa razón el 25 de diciembre lo recuerdo exactamente ya a las 3 y media casi hora de salida me llaman y me notificaron que mi contrato había finalizado yo sin reclamos sin conflictos acepte amablemente aunque yo sabía que mi contrato culminaba en abril, yo sabia que era por que se regó que yo estaba en embarazó y si no no me hubiesen botado yo hubiese renunciado, desde allí me dedique a mi embarazo, la situacion con el padre de mi niño eran complicada lo sacaron del apartamento donde vivía alquilado la madre no quiso pelear, se fueron a casa de una tía alli era la locura ya que esa tia tenia preferencia por un sobrino mala conducta que ella se negaba a aceptar que su sobrino tenia vicios y malas mañas,por tal razón yo no vivia con el nos veiamos cada quince dias o una vez al mes asi transcurrio el embarazo y los dos años de vida de mi niño, cerca de la cas de su tia habia una casa sola que era de una señora adulto mayor que por misericordia vivia en casa de la tia del padre de mi niño, un dia intentaron invadir esa casa y como el padre de mi niño corrió al malandro se intentaba meter, en agradecimiento le permitieron ocupar esa casa, al principio el no me dijo nada de irme para alla que con el cosa que me molestó mucho, y mas por que prefirio invitar a vivir a su pastor, yo iba y me quedaba unos dias cosa que al señor comenzo a molestarle por incompatibilidad de habitos tanto de limpieza como de dormir y de actividades por tal razon tuvimos inconveniente y por primera vez el me tomo como prioridad y le pidió al señor que buscará para donde irse, fue alli donde tuve la oportunidad de vivir con el el y conocerlo y vivir con el 10 meses, en esos die meses me di cuenta de lo egoista, frio, apático, distante y manipular que era por tal razón decidi regresar a casa de mi madre con mi niño cosa que le molestó y allí salio lo peor de él. Por dedicarme a mi niño y a él me deje de lado me descuide y hasta perdí mi amor propio al dejarlo ñoco a poco he trabajo en mi autoestima y decidí ejercer y retomar mi carrera de diseñadora, estoy desactualizada en esta era digital estoy empezando como de 0 carrera poco a poco , incursione en la costura, y me encanta escribir, escribo cosas cotidianas,pensamientos,deseos anhelos, poemas, cuentos, relatos cualquier cosa que se me ocurra. He utilizado la escritura como terapia en mi vida, escribir me relaja y Me encanta socializar.
Por eso le digo que nunca dejen todos sus proyectos ni se dejen a un lado por otra persona, la persona que realmente te ama, te ayudara a lograr tus proyectos. No te estancará ni dejará que abandones tus ideales.
I am a designer by profession, I have never practiced, I graduated in December 2018, in May 2019 I started working at a restaurant as a kitchen assistant at that time I was making good money but the treatment was terrible, the manager was very despotic, verbally mistreated all the workers and I could no longer stand the abuse, in that same year I met the man who is now the father of my child, at that time I clung to him even though things did not start very well due to health problems he presented, first he had shingles, then hepatitis. The truth is that I continued with him and in October I got pregnant and for that reason, on December 25th, I remember it exactly at 3:30 almost time to leave, they called me and notified me that my contract had ended, without complaints, without conflicts I accepted kindly though I knew my contract ended in April, I knew it was because it leaked that I was pregnant and if not, they wouldn't have fired me, I would have resigned. From there, I dedicated myself to my pregnancy, the situation with the father of my child was complicated, they kicked him out of the apartment where he was renting, his mother did not want to fight, they went to a aunt's house, it was madness because that aunt had a preference for a misbehaving nephew that she refused to accept his vices and bad manners, for that reason I did not live with him, we saw each other every fifteen days or once a month that's how the pregnancy and the first two years of my child's life went by, near his aunt's house there was a vacant house that belonged to an elderly lady who out of kindness lived in the aunt's house of my child's father, one day they tried to invade that house and as my child's father ran towards the thug who was trying to break in, as a thank you they allowed him to occupy that house, at first he did not tell me anything about going there, which bothered me a lot, and even more so because he preferred to invite his pastor to live there, I went and stayed there for a few days, something that began to bother the gentleman due to incompatibility of habits in terms of cleanliness, sleeping, and activities, for that reason we had problems and for the first time he took me as a priority and asked the gentleman to find somewhere else to go, that's where I had the opportunity to live with him and get to know him for 10 months, in those ten months I realized how selfish, cold, apathetic, distant, and manipulative he was, for that reason I decided to return to my mother's house with my child, which bothered him and that's when the worst of him came out. By dedicating myself to my child and him, I neglected myself and even lost my self-love. I have been working on my self-esteem little by little and decided to practice and resume my career as a designer. I am outdated in this digital age, I am starting from scratch in my career little by little. I ventured into sewing, and I love to write. I write everyday things, thoughts, desires, dreams, poems, stories, anything that comes to mind. I have used writing as therapy in my life, writing relaxes me and I love to socialize. That's why I tell you never to give up on your projects or set them aside for someone else. The person who truly loves you will help you achieve your projects. They will not hold you back or let you abandon your ideals. I am very grateful to José Navas (elfino) who introduced me to this platform, and thanks to his help, I was able to become part of this community.
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