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Today I will explain a little about how and why my relationship with my beloved husband Adrián has been maintained 🥰❤️ Although we are quite opposite poles, we manage to get along quite well with certain affinities that we share and that makes our relationship is maintained from love and mainly, respect.
My husband Adrian is very geeky. So am I. While he likes everything from Play Station to the history of Ancient Empires like the Roman or Greek, I on the other hand like everything related to Harry Potter. To make you realize that when I talk about getting along, I'm talking about Adrian giving me a black backpack, a pop sucket and a super beautiful Harry Potter keychain 😍 He bought them for me at a department store called Primark. So much so that he is the one who has created a collection for me at home and has also become a fan. The truth is that I didn't expect it and it wasn't the eve of a special date either... But that's exactly what I'm getting at, you don't need a lot of money or expensive gifts to show the person you love what they really mean to you. Every day is unique and never comes back. Make the most of them.
I consider my husband Adrian very intelligent, although I confess I don't tell him that very often. It's lacking for me, I know. But he is very funny and I always let him know how much I love him by helping him with things he might not handle so well like organizing the house or the laundry, or making him his favorite food because he is a glutton. That's the detail: I focus on his weaknesses and instead of reproaching him for them, I focus on helping him. And on the other hand, I like him to feel that I value his effort in dedicating time to the foods they like the most. That's called being thoughtful and considerate.
On the other hand, it doesn't mean that even if you have weaknesses in certain activities it doesn't mean that you don't want to do them. On the contrary, we help each other and grow together. If I do the cooking, he does the dishes (even if he hates it). One day he cooks and the next day I do. If my back hurts, he carries my bag. If I'm in class, since I don't want the white clothes to end up with lint from fibers from other clothes, I prepare the washing machine for him and he puts in the detergent, softener, and the dryer at the end of the wash. Because that's what it's all about, being a real team. We can't just rely on our weaknesses, we also share our joys when the other has a success like finding a 5€ bill in the street haha (it happens to us quite a lot). That means we can treat ourselves together, because he doesn't keep it to himself, he shares it with me.
If you consider or see your partner as your life partner, it's time to let them know. Beyond the commitment of the proposal and marriage, it means that you want to spend the rest of your days with that person because you feel loved, comfortable and above all valued. These feelings will determine the success of your relationship. But BEWARE: don't take things for granted. Don't assume, always ask. This is one of the things that has worked for me with my husband. Let me explain: Adrian sometimes has late shifts at his job and works from 2:30pm to 9:30pm. Sometimes he gets home before 10pm or after 10pm, depending on the day of the week. Sometimes she gets home before 10pm or after 10pm, depending on the day of the week. I always put something in his bag for him to snack on during his 20 minute break from work and although he has often told me that he prefers not to eat anything when he gets home from his shift and the next day he comes in in the morning, I always ask him if he would like something for dinner. I am considerate and empathetic because he is the one who provides our household with the most sustenance.
On the other hand, we never fall into a routine. We are very homemade but we always try to visit a bar or a nice place to get out of the monotony. I used to be a party girl but I grew up, he has never been a party person. But we adapted to each other, neither too much nor too much. We are living comfortably in the right measure and it's going super cool. When I want to watch Netflix, he plays on the computer and when I'm done with the Smart TV, he proceeds to play Play Station and I lie down for a while in the bedroom to rest my spine. Or we sit and watch a movie or series together.
Relationships are sometimes difficult because we believe we have the right over the other person and that is very wrong. Human beings are already complicated, so let's try as much as possible to coincide and be with people who share our values and tastes. If you do not agree or do not adapt, the best thing to do is to withdraw and leave a beautiful mark. This is what stable and healthy relationships are all about: compatibility, putting yourself in the other person's place in good times and bad, treating others as you would like to be treated and above all respecting each other's space. We have been together since 2018 and in March 2022 we will be married for 3 years. It's easy to say but it's all about finding the right tools to make the relationship work.
Thank you for coming here and reading me. I'm not a psychologist, just speaking from my experience. You are loved ❤️✌️🌻
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Muy cierto lo que dices en cuanto a cuidar y mantener una relación sana, bonita y duradera. Bendiciones para ustedes!!! y que sea por la eternidad
Amén.. Muchas gracias por tus bonitos deseos ❤️✨
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