HOLA MI LINDA COMUNIDAD
HELLO MY BEAUTIFUL COMMUNITY
Espero que estén bien, yo sinceramente estoy un poco perdida, tratando de organizar pensamientos y sentimientos, y aunque escribir me ayuda un montón, no logro darle el sentido suficiente como para hacerlo un post y compartirlo con ustedes, por eso no saben tanto de mi como deberían.Pero hace un par de días ví algo que hizo click en mi y decidí hacer contenido al respecto, obviamente basado en mi perspectiva y eso es de lo que vengo a hablarles hoy. Así que aquí vamos: Hablemos de lo que no necesitas en tu vida.
I hope you are well, I'm honestly a little lost, trying to organize thoughts and feelings, and although writing helps me a lot, I can't make enough sense to make it a post and share it with you, that's why you don't know as much about me as you should, but a couple of days ago I saw something that clicked in me and I decided to make content about it, obviously based on my perspective and that's what I'm here to talk to you about today. So here we go: Let's talk about what you don't need in your life.
No necesitas ser perfecto | You don't need to be perfect
Como seres humanos estamos llenos de defectos, desaciertos y tristeza que expresamos a nuestra manera. Por ese motivo, la perfección está bastante lejos de ser alcanzada por cada uno de nosotros. Entonces, ese éxito que todos buscamos alcanzar es algo muy subjetivo y no necesitas ser un ser ejemplar para alcanzarlo, recordemos que todo objetivo (el éxito) es un recorrido constante dónde vamos a caer, equivocarnos, crecer y seguir, nunca será una línea recta, por eso será difícil pero también gratificante conseguir lo que buscamos. Al final del día, no necesitas ser perfecto para lograr lo que quieres ni a quienes quieres, necesitas ser constante, inteligente, fuerte, pero no perfecto, así que evita centrarte en ello.
As human beings we are full of flaws, mistakes and sadness that we express in our own way. For that reason, perfection is far from being achieved by each one of us. So, that success that we all seek to achieve is something very subjective and you do not need to be an exemplary being to achieve it, remember that every goal (success) is a constant journey where we will fall, make mistakes, grow and continue, it will never be a straight line, so it will be difficult but also rewarding to achieve what we seek. At the end of the day, you don't need to be perfect to achieve what you want or who you want, you need to be constant, smart, strong, but not perfect, so avoid focusing on it.
FUENTE
No necesitas estar siempre para todos
You don't need to be there for everyone all the time
A pesar de que la reciprocidad es una de las cosas más bonitas que puede tener una relación de cualquier tipo, la verdad es que también necesitas tiempo para ti, para sanar, para amarte y consentirte. No siempre podemos estar para todo el mundo, al final eso terminara desgastandote y sinceramente no es algo que quienes de verdad te aman, quieren para ti, pues sobrecargarte de emociones y problemas ajenos, tarde o temprano va a hacerte daño. Asi que no permitas que solo por intentar ser buena persona con todos tus seres queridos, termines haciendole mal a la persona mas importante de tu vida: TU mismo. Eso puede sonar egocentrico, egoista o lo que quieras, pero cuando aprendes a ponerte a ti mismo como prioridad, tambien aprendes a ser mas feliz de lo que imaginas.
Although reciprocity is one of the most beautiful things that can have a relationship of any kind, the truth is that you also need time for yourself, to heal, to love and pamper yourself. We can not always be for everyone, in the end that will end up wearing you out and honestly is not something that those who really love you, want for you, because overloading yourself with emotions and other people's problems, sooner or later will hurt you. So do not allow that just by trying to be a good person with all your loved ones, you end up hurting the most important person in your life: YOURSELF. That may sound self-centered, selfish or whatever you want, but when you learn to put yourself as a priority, you also learn to be happier than you imagine.
No necesitas cumplir con un reloj social | You don't need to meet a social clock
Las expectativas sociales son la cosa mas toxica a la que le puedes prestar atencion, no necesitas terminar tus estudios a cierta edad, no necesitas casarte o tener hijos a la edad que todo el mundo quiere o espera de ti. Como ser humano esta mal que sigamos creyendo que existe un limite de tiempo para lograr la meta que nos proponemos, y esta aun peor que seamos quienes le dicen a otros cuales son sus tiempos y que es lo que deberia seguir o lo que se espera socialmente de el. Considero que eso era normal hace 100 años, actualmente llegó el momento de que nuestra forma de pensar evolucione.
Social expectations are the most toxic thing you can pay attention to, you don't need to finish your studies at a certain age, you don't need to get married or have children at the age everyone wants or expects from you. As a human being it is wrong that we continue to believe that there is a time limit to achieve the goal we set for ourselves, and it is even worse that we are the ones who tell others what their times are and what they should follow or what is socially expected of them. I believe that this was normal 100 years ago, now it is time for our way of thinking to evolve.
No necesitas callar para hacer feliz a otros
You don't need to be silent to make others happy
Se que la verdad casi nunca es bien recibida, tambien sé que existen muchas personas que han tenido que hacer silencio y sonreir solo para encajar, fui una de esas personas, entonces entiendo que la mayor parte del tiempo muchos no van a querer escucharte. Que por evitar problemas vamos a perdernos a nosotros mismos un monton de veces, y creeme por experiencia propia sé que no deja nada bueno, al final seguiras terminando solo, pero con un sin fin de emociones sin gestionar o podrias explotar y cargarte esa relacion en la que decidias guardar silencio para no hacer daño. Aprendamos a buscar relaciones donde desde el principio podamos ser nosotros mismos, sin rodearnos de personas que de una forma u otra intentan cambiar nuestra escencia para meternos en un molde, recuerda que quien de verdad vale la pena, va a quererte tal y como eres, y te ayudará a pulir esos defectos que otros intentan cambiar.
I know that the truth is almost never well received, I also know that there are many people who have had to keep quiet and smile just to fit in, I was one of those people, so I understand that most of the time many people will not want to listen to you. That to avoid problems we are going to lose ourselves a lot of times, and believe me from my own experience I know that does not leave anything good, in the end you will still end up alone, but with endless unmanaged emotions or you could explode and take that relationship in which you decided to keep silent to avoid hurting. Let's learn to look for relationships where from the beginning we can be ourselves, without surrounding ourselves with people who in one way or another try to change our essence to put us in a mold, remember that who is really worth it, will love you as you are, and will help you to polish those defects that others try to change.
Y bueno, espero que les haya gusto mi perspectiva con respecto a las actitutes y pensamientos que no necesitamos en nuestra vida, esos que son desgastantes y que posiblemente terminen dejando a una persona triste y frustrada, en lugar de dejarnos obtener esa felicidad que a diario buscamos y que no necesita de una validacion externa para encontrarse. Si llegaste hasta aqui:
And well, I hope you liked my perspective regarding the attitudes and thoughts that we do not need in our lives, those that are wearing and possibly end up leaving a person sad and frustrated, instead of letting us get that happiness that we seek daily and that does not need an external validation to be found. If you made it this far:
Gracias por leerme y hasta un próximo post
Thanks for reading and see you in a future post
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