Saludos apreciados hivens, poder expresar mis sentimientos de tristeza por la perdida de mi hermano de manera repentina, a través de esta comunidad @catarsis es una forma que me ayuda a desahogarme.
La perdida de mi hermano no es tan fácil de superar, me puedo resignar por qué no hay nada que hacer, hagas lo que hagas no volverá a la vida. Es una experiencia sumamente dolorosa y compleja que ha generado una amplia gama de emociones en mi.
Antes del fallecimiento de mi hermano, yo era de las personas que no me gustaba dar el pésame a las familias de algún conocido que fallecía, por qué no encontraba nada que decirles para calmar su dolor ya que yo no había pasado por algo similar para ese entonces.
Hoy si entiendo el gran dolor que se siente por la partida de un ser querido, me viene a la mente aquellos recuerdos cuando íbamos al colegio y me defendía y me cuidaba, jugábamos, compartimos momentos bonitos de niño, por qué ya de adolescente tuvo que salir a trabajar para ayudar en casa.
Me viene a la mente que tres dias antes, mi hermana lo había invitado para ir a la playa en familia a celebrar el cumpleaños de mamá, recuerdo que le dijo al invitarlo, no dejes de ir por qué no sabemos si es el último año que mamá estará con nosotros.
Ese viernes él no fue porque según tenía mucho trabajo, al siguiente día el vino le trajo un pastel y desde la calle comenzó a cantar el cumpleaños de llegó con sus ocurrencias. Todo estaba bien por mi hermano se cuidaba mucho.
El martes como la una de la tarde me llama mi sobrina diciendo que a mí hermano le había dado un infarto en el trabajo, lo único que hice fue orar a Dios para que tuviera misericordia y no se lo llevará, a la media hora me volvió a llamar para dar la noticia qué mi hermano había fallecido súbitamente.
Estaba confundida, no encontraba que hacer, ahora me tocaba dar la triste noticia a mi mamá, lo cierto que mamá aparentemente lo tomo con calma, lloro poco y luego nos dijo vamos a dónde lo tienen. Mi madre una mujer muy valiente, nos dió una gran lección, llegó al lugar dando consuelo a todos. Desde su esposa hasta los hijos.
Todos estos acontecimientos quedarán guardados en mi corazón, sin dejar de pensar en mi hermano con mucha tristeza por su perdida.
Me despido de ustedes dándole las gracias por permitirme expresar mi gran dolor y que por fin pude desahogarme. Bendiciones para todos.
La foto es de mi propiedad y el traductor que utilice es deepl
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Greetings dear hivens, to be able to express my feelings of sadness for the sudden loss of my brother, through this community @catarsis is a way that helps me to unburden myself.
The loss of my brother is not so easy to overcome, I can resign myself because there is nothing to do, whatever you do he will not come back to life. It is an extremely painful and complex experience that has generated a wide range of emotions in me.
Before my brother's death, I was one of those people who did not like to give condolences to the families of someone I knew who died, because I could not find anything to say to them to calm their pain, since I had not gone through something similar at that time.
Today I understand the great pain that is felt by the departure of a loved one, it comes to my mind those memories when we went to school and he defended me and took care of me, we played, we shared beautiful moments as a child, because as a teenager he had to go to work to help at home.
It comes to my mind that three days before, my sister had invited him to go to the beach as a family to celebrate mom's birthday, I remember she told him when she invited him, don't forget to go because we don't know if this is the last year mom will be with us.
That Friday he didn't go because according to him he had a lot of work, the next day he came and brought her a cake and from the street he started to sing her birthday with his witticisms. Everything was fine because my brother took good care of himself.
On Tuesday at about one o'clock in the afternoon my niece called me saying that my brother had a heart attack at work, the only thing I did was to pray to God to have mercy and not to take him away, half an hour later she called me again to give me the news that my brother had died suddenly.
I was confused, I could not find what to do, now it was my turn to give the sad news to my mother, the truth is that my mother apparently took it calmly, she cried a little and then told us to go to where they have him. My mother, a very brave woman, gave us a great lesson, she arrived at the place giving comfort to everyone. From his wife to his children.
All these events will remain in my heart, without forgetting to think of my brother with great sadness for his loss.
I bid you farewell by thanking you for allowing me to express my great pain and that I was finally able to get it off my chest. Blessings to all.
The photo is of my property and the translator I used is deepl
Me siento invisible ante la comunidad @hivecatarsis, es motivo para escribir en ella. Saludos y bendiciones