Hi everyone here.
I have gone into many relationships and most times it does not last for long and those that lasted for long were filled with so much problems everyday but it lasted long because I kept enduring and enduring in the relationship before it got to a point when I could not cope any longer.
Whenever I hear people talk about how Lovely their relationships were and how some people were in relationship which led to marriage , I began to ask myself why can't I just experience the same thing too, why do I keep falling into the wrong hands ? Why do I keep getting into the wrong relationships? Honestly I am very scared of getting into another relationship because it might become another relationship filled with so much problems and issues.
I have checked myself to see if the problems in the relationship is caused by me but I cannot find any, infact I had to speak to some of my exes to know if I have done some wrongs things in the relationship with them but they keep saying that I am a good person and that I was a good lover and a nice person..
But I am wondering if they keep saying great things about me why then can't I find a partner that would give me peace of mind and make the relationship with them to be successful ? It is becoming so worrisome and I am just hoping that someday i will find the right person who will make our relationship success and make me a happy person but for now I am scared of getting into another relationship.
Wait But Why wrote about this subject. you can read a summary of his article here: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/wait-but-why-summary-how-to-pick-a-life-partner
i recommend reading it a lot, it's informative, clear, canny, and presented in an easy to understand and endearing way
Okay thanks