By Reverend Taiwo-Ola Ola Joshua
This is what i gained today. It took me hours of editing and typing.
Be Careful with What You Try on Important Days
David was given armor, but he chose a sling instead. Why? The sling was something he had mastered. David had a deep trust in God, built over years of experience. Some trust in chariots, some trust in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord. The sling David used was different—it was not just a weapon but a symbol of his reliance on God. David fought his battles based on spiritual intelligence, not just spiritual skills. Anything you do outside of God will lead to frustration. When we base our efforts on Jesus, the outcome is different.
The Danger of Negative Praise
David was loved by Jonathan, but Saul kept him in the palace. Originally, Saul loved him. However, something changed when the women of Israel sang David’s praises throughout the nation:
“Saul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands.” (1 Samuel 18:7)
This song wounded Saul’s ego, and from that day, David lost his place in the palace.
When you excel in your workplace, be careful of those who say you are more anointed than your boss. Ministry is not just for a while—it requires wisdom and humility. Many voices today are merely human echoes leading people astray. I pray that we do not fall into the hands of the enemy.
The Biblical Warning Against Praise
In Acts 12:23, Herod was struck down by an angel because he did not give glory to God. Are you seeing the negative effects of praise? One of the most dangerous things in life is listening to the praise of men. When people praise you, ask yourself these questions:
1. Who is Singing My Praise?
Your enemies may disguise themselves as admirers, offering certain accolades to deceive you. We must not be blindfolded by what people say. They may tell you that you are next in line for promotion, but what is their true intent? I pray that the plans of the wicked will not prevail.
Proverbs 27:6 says:
“Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
Some people point out your mistakes because they genuinely care, while others praise you publicly but act against you in private. Do not be driven by sweet words—be wiser than that. If someone praises you in front of your boss, immediately redirect that praise to your boss.
2. Why Are They Singing My Praise?
If people praise you for what you have not done, be cautious. They may be setting you up for a downfall. The women of Israel sang David’s praises not out of love but for comparison, pitting him against Saul. Why didn’t they simply say, “David has killed ten thousand” without mentioning Saul?
Enjoy your time with your boss and do not allow people to create enmity where none should exist. A young man enjoying his life suddenly had his destiny altered by a negative song.
“God, lift me up, but do not let me rise by pulling another down.”
Do not accept praise that comes at the expense of someone else’s honor.
3. Does This Praise Have Value?
If you are celebrated prematurely, your testimony may be aborted. Be self-motivated.
Herod sought information about where baby Jesus was, but did he truly want to worship Him? No! (Matthew 2:8). If you reveal your testimony too soon, it may be destroyed. A wise person speaks after a mission is accomplished (Proverbs 29:11). Do not celebrate prematurely. Keep some testimonies private.
When people praise you, ensure it is not comparative praise designed to cause conflict. Not all praises are good.
4. Where Are They Singing My Praise?
Location matters. Some people use their words to uplift, while others use their tongues to destroy (Proverbs 18:21). Many praises are traps—be wise.
5. Is the Praise Given to God?
If you accept praise that belongs to God, it will bring you down. Psalm 115:1 reminds us:
“Not unto us, O Lord, not unto us, but unto thy name give glory.”
How to Handle Praise Wisely
- Always give respect to your early mentors and leaders.
- The 48 Laws of Power state: “Never outshine the master.” Give honor where it is due.
- Direct all praise to God, for He alone deserves the glory.
Final Thoughts
Be careful with what you say and how you respond to praise. Not all praises are genuine, and not all compliments are meant for good. May God deliver us from the negative praise of men. Amen.
