We all know that a friend loves at all times, and a friend in need is a friend indeed. However, it's important to recognize that a friend who helps you become a better person is more valuable than one who simply cheers you on while doing wrong.
... Your friend tells a blatant lie to her parents about where she was last night. What should you do, and why?
If my friend lies to her parents about her whereabouts, I wouldn’t interrupt her while she’s talking. Instead, I would likely avoid making eye contact with her but would keep a listening ear to her conversation with her parents.
After she finishes talking to them, I would ask her why she chose to lie. I would remind her that her parents care about her safety and security, and that they might have specific reasons for their concerns. Perhaps she went somewhere her parents had warned her not to go.
I would listen to her reasons. It might be that she didn’t want her parents to be angry, or perhaps she snuck out to get something they can’t afford, or something they might have denied her for their own reasons. Regardless, my first priority would be to offer her a listening ear.
Once I understand her perspective, I would help her realize that lying to her parents is wrong and counterproductive. I would approach her in a calm and mature manner, helping her see the potential consequences of her lie. For instance, if she’s in a place where there are police arrests at odd hours or other dangerous activities, her parents likely know better and are trying to protect her. Being honest with them can help her avoid such risky situations.
After discussing the importance of honesty, I would advise her to go back and talk to her parents, explain the truth, and apologize for lying. However, if she remains defensive about her actions and believes she was right, I would give her some time to reflect. While the consequences of her actions may not be immediate, they may become apparent later on.
I would also highlight to her how setting values matters and that there's no need to lie to fit in. I would talk to her about the detrimental effects of peer pressure and the need to adhere to her parents' instructions. I would emphasize not being influenced by what others are doing.
She might lie to her parents because there’s a lack of trust in their relationship, or the parents may misunderstand her. It's also important to encourage her to be open and have conversations with her parents because their love is unconditional, even if they are overprotective at times.
I will make her understand that the reason I'm talking to her is to strengthen our friendship, and I care about her well-being and security, and I'm preventing her from harm. Upholding integrity is crucial for both our friendship and her relationship with her parents.
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You are indeed a good friend. I love to hear you won't interrupt but letter give her a counseling to be open to her parents because their love is unconditional
Thanks so much.
Yes it's better not to interrupt
And you have to handle every situation maturely and unique.
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You're indeed a very good friend, it's nice to hear that you didn't say anything in front of her parents because that might cause you her friendship.
It's also nice that you made her realize the importance of opening up.
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You are a true friend. Weldone
Thanks so much dear
I deeply appreciate
I'm glad you support my opinion
Hmmm. That’s what a friend should do. Not publicly call them out but give them the chance to explain.
Yes dear.
You don't have to confront people publicly.
It's better privately because in everything there's a cause and effect
Art is, after all, a great experience that every human being should have. Your experience will ultimately lead you to the ultimate destination one day. Many people lie but maybe there is a reason behind it. Or he just lies for his gain. But it is better to ask his mother. It was better to strengthen the friendship. Acting with integrity means valuing friendship with extraordinary feelings. Thank you very much for sharing your feelings with us.
I feel honored
It's well
Yes my pleasure
I know someone who would tell the truth in the process of lies 🤣🤣, you dare not try to lie in her presence. What you explained so far is the best, try to know the reason your friend was lying...
Hahahaha 🤣
Which ever way, I think the approach should be maturely
Wow
You're indeed a good friend
Kudos 👏
Thanks so much
A friend loves at all times
Awesome write-up
You are indeed a good friend
Thanks for sharing this with us
What a good friend you are.
Nice reading your post. 😊
This is a very good way to handle such a situation and I believe such a friend should be able to listen to your wise advice and reconsider her way.