Your story is funny, you enjoyed but you were so dependent on your dad that you could not thrive on your own and that was what affected your business in school...
Your dad already did his part, he was purposely doing all that so you won't fall for guys in school since many girl's life has been ruined when in school... now that you are a graduate, he believes you are now an adult that needs to deal with her own responsibility so best of luck dear
Thanks for the wishes, because I need it. I will keep on pushing