One-Of-a-kind Journey ~~Single Parenting~~

in Hive Naijalast year (edited)
Single parenting is not a planned event, and it's always a challenging journey that can be caused by death, divorce, and unmarried couples. The impact on both the parent and the child can be very deep, and it is important to find ways to support both individuals. Growing up with a single parent for 11 years hasn't really been easy but it has taught me a lot like never to always depend on any but yourself and God. And as I grew older, I always knew I could go to her for any advice and any topic. Nothing was off limits. Yea, all because she always works so hard, in long hours to be able to provide for her six children. Though there wasn't enough time to spend with us, but the little she had was full of lessons to keep in mind.

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Beginning with the challenges of single parenting. Single parents often have to carry many responsibilities, which include: Household chores, work, childcare, and finances. This can lead to stress and frustration. Being both mother and father can be strenuous at times. All of the discipline lands on one person. The parent doesn't have anyone to back them up in the discipline of the children. They are very busy trying to maintain a work-life balance thereby spending less quality time with their children. This quality time helps check in on the kids and give them the attention they need.

For children who have only one parent can lead to less financial security and less parental guidance. ‌Some children may be affected and feel upset about the family situation. They may develop negative feelings about relationships and may even blame their parents for their problems. They may also feel a deep sense of loss and grief of losing a guardian. Not being able to process these feelings can make the children worried and aggressive.

To reduce the challenges of single parenting, It's important to develop a strong support network of friends, family, and professional support. Finding time for self-care whether it's through relaxation, exercise or simply taking a break, fixing a working arrangement, and parenting resources like after-school programs can also be helpful.
It is also important to understand that the impact of single parenting is the importance of bonding and attachment. Children who have a secure attachment to their parents are likely to have better outcomes in terms of social and emotional development. Attachment can be gained through things like physical affection, responding to the child's needs, making open communication with them, and spending quality time together.

To maintain a healthy work-life balance, it is important to set boundaries between your work and personal life. Make sure that there is a scheduled time to relax and recharge. This can be anything from reading a book and spending time with family and friends. It is very important to avoid being too stressed out and not overworked. Be sure to take breaks throughout the day and when needed. It will also be easier to maintain a healthy balance If the single parents do what they love.

Moreover, raising children alone is like a hot cake but still, it has a great reward at last, such as greater resilience: Single parents learn to adapt and overcome challenges, as they are the sole providers for their families. This can lead to increased resilience and an ability to handle difficult situations.

THANKS FOR READING❣️❣️

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