No more universities, she must have the baby

in Hive Naija21 days ago

A lot is happening among the teenagers today, and it's disappointing that sometimes they neglect the lessons from their parents. Let's imagine a female child got impregnated while seeking admission into the university. What would be your next line of action as a parent?

We are made in the image of God according to the holy scriptures. Being our creator and a loving father, when we neglect his council and gets into trouble, he feel's disappointed 😞☹️ and he also looks for a way to draw us back to himself. But that doesn't mean he will take away the consequences of our bad conduct. No, he will allow us to pass through it so that we can learn our lessons. When i was in secondary school, most of my classmates have boy friends in which most of them are our classmates too. But due to home training and the fear of my parents, i never had anything boyfriend in my secondary school days.

After secondary school, one of my friends got impregnated while she was seeking for an admission into university. When the mother finds out, she didn't let her husband know about it because she still wants her daughter to continue with her pursuit into university. Unknown to them she she was carrying twins. During the process of the abortion, one of the babies came out and they thought it was all over. Few weeks later, she became terribly sick and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor let them know that a baby hasdied in her womb two weeks ago as a of abortion. While they were trying to save her life, she died due to lack of blood. What do you think 🤔? As for me, the part she and her mother played is a wrong one. She would have allowed her have the baby, bear the shame and learn from it. She was trying to cover up shame still it wasn't covered and later she died. It was a very painful situation because no one will wish for her daughter to end up that way.

Let's imagine my daughter gets impregnated while she is seeking admissions in University, honestly it will really pain me. Secondly, i will beat her up and she must let me know who impregnated her. Now that she has choosing pregnancy over her education, she will have the child but not in my house. I will let her face the consequences of her actions. She will have to leave my house to stay with who impregnated her. As for the Admission, it's counseled. I won't disown her, she will always remain my daughter but as for the school, it's over. But later when she might have finished learning her lessons in a hard way and comes back to her rightful cences, she can still forward her education. By then, she already have her child. It's left for her to decide on what to do. Either to continue with her education after her first mistakes or not. But as a loving mother i will want her to continue her education later in the years.

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I will let her face the consequences of her actions. She will have to leave my house to stay with who impregnated her. As for the Admission, it's counseled.

Haha 😂😂😂, babe, your blood dey hot oo 😂🤣

What if the guy who got her impregnated isn't a responsible man? What if he doesn't love her but infatuation got him to do what he did? Don't you think he will treat your daughter like a trash?

That's what she wants. Omor she go hear am

LOLZ 😂

Smiles.....you are really a Nigeria mother😊