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There are quite a number of benefits to sharing your feelings, thoughts and memories with people. There are people who have the tendency of sharing a lot about their personal life the moment they meet someone newly and there are some who are more reserved about the amount of information they disclose to others - infact there are people who carefully select the people they tell certain private details about their life.
Sharing your personal life information is a crucial way of building bonds among people and establishing intimacy in a social group. Relationship, whether between friends or lovers wouldn't go to far if the parties involved are not willing to share their thoughts and feelings with each other. Most times when we start to share our feelings and thoughts with people we start on a general note but the more we begin to get comfortable with these people we begin to go deeper.
Well, there are times when the things you share about yourself make you more closer in the relationship and lead to a better understanding of yourself. But there are times when the information you reveal doesn't go as expected. Perhaps, you revealed too much to your social media followers or you said more than you were supposed to say when you were told to mediate in a particular issue.
In circumstances where you have said the inappropriate things it can lead to you feeling embarrassed and ashamed of yourself or in worst case scenario damaging and ruining the relationship. Some factors can determine whether or not you would have a successful experience sharing some information and it include the type of relationship that exist between you two, the place and time where the information is passed, and the level of closeness between the parties invloved.
There is this pattern that plays out most time especially when someone shares a deep and captivating personal information about themselves. We often feel pressured to reciprocate by sharing similar information from our personal life as well. If someone shared with you a sad experience they are going through, you may also feel the need to share your similar sad experience and how you overcame it just yo console the person. If someone tells you how they feel after seeing a movie, then you might feel the need to also talk about how tbe movie made you feel.
Well, I think the reason we might feel compelled to share our own thoughts is that there is a sort of imbalance in the mix. Now you know quite a lot about the other person and they might not be able to say the same about you. So, in order to create a balance you might share similar information as well. This balance that has been created makes the other party feels more comfortable and relaxed as the conversation goes.
Just like you know that we have extroverted and introverted personalities, it can also influence the amount of information that is being shared. Extroverts are more likely to disclose in one day what will take an introvert to disclose in one week. Extroverts are quick to form relationship with others and are more likely to disclose more early in a relationship unlike introverts who are more reserved and tend to hold back on sharing details about themselves to people who they haven't got to know well.
Again, mood can also be a huge decider on how much personal information a person chose to share with others. Definitely, it is expected that a person who is in a happy mood will share more details than someone who is in a bad mood. A person in a bad mood is careful and picky about what they decide to share but a happy person is more likely to speak freely with a lot of confidence.
However, if you want to master the art of sharing information with people you meet you should know that you have to start slow. You should not always share too much at the beginning of a relationship - it may even be a turn off for the other person.
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