Allowing the family struggles to affect the children in any way is a terrible thing to do as parents. We can't claim to be working to help their future while they feel neglected.
We must carry them along and that way, we can even build a beautiful and stronger relationship with them as parents.
You just nailed it, some parents don't see it as a thing at all and the kids are left at the mercy of those around and a times they are so molested by the older ones which is heart breaking.
Thank you so much for showing up