Hello everyone in the hiveNaijacommunity. Welcome to my Blog. I am pleased to participate once again in this week’s prompt.
Talking about our personalities is really one thing people need to talk about because a lot of people have mistaken people’s personalities to be pride or being wayward. People are molded differently some are outdoor persons and some persons prefer being indoors. Most persons that’s their personalities and it can be hard trying to change them but unfortunately people judge you based on your personalities.
Most people see people that prefer being outdoors as being wayward especially for the women folk the society feels a woman should always be seen indoors. And also, being indoors, they say it's pride you don’t want to associate with others that’s why you’re always indoors. At this point you really have to avoid what people think about you and just live your life just the way you feel good about and you are comfortable because you really should not live your life to please everyone.
Personally, I am more of an indoor person than an outdoor person, this is one character that has lived with me over the years because I was raised up to prefer being indoors than being an outdoor person. You know when you have been raised and protected as a female child especially from harm outside and you’re told being indoors prevents you from having or running into troubles so I grew up with that and you know such a person finds it so difficult to change. Over the years I have had couples of friends that prefer being outdoors all the time and they have tried their best to change my person to being an outdoor person like them and that has proved abortive. I still feel safer staying in my space. Many times, I too have tried changing from being an indoor person to becoming an outdoor person but any day I try I always feel so uncomfortable that I will have to hurry others and so we go back home.
It's so weird but seriously I prefer being indoors in a secluded environment, just me, my phone and my books. When in doors, I am always very comfortable enjoying the comfort of my space and relaxing in my quiet space. I am more of a quiet person so me being in a space where it’s always noisy makes me sick. Being indoors allows me do a lot of things without distraction and being indoors makes me happy. Most of the times I can just be indoors reflecting on my personal life. One of the very reasons I love my space is because I am a very shy person this is one truth I always do not always want to accept but that’s the truth.
So, my favorite indoor activities range from playing and listening to music and that feels like heaven to me so I can stay a whole day playing and listening to music and can never get tired of it.
Another favorite activity is just being on my phone most times watching movies, going on social media watching reels and communicating with friends.
Then another favorite indoor activity includes reading my books at the comfort of my space. One of the days I tried visiting the library I angrily left because to my knowledge libraries were supposed to be a quiet place for reading but it was the opposite so I prefer my house to read because it is quiet and a comfortable place to read.
This is my entry to hiveNaija weekly prompt.
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Honestly you are very right. I don't understand the point of trying to change people rather than accepting them for who they are. Our preference doesn't define us. Being outdoors does not mean I'm wayward and being indoors does not mean I'm arrogant. I really love the perspective of your article.
Thank you so much for engaging. Its just the world we live in. I am now so very apt about leaving my life how it pleases me and not worried about what the society thinks about me.
What an irony, a Library where you ought to hear a pin drop will be more rowdy and noisy than the market place..I really did despise the library during my school days because people just don't know how to do Library activities in the library.
Exactly. Thats why i prefer using my house as my reading space.