Children are the most important members of their parents. They try to give them everything they need. They raise their child, take care of them, and protect them from any danger, no matter what the situation is. They are like the sun for their child, who keeps shining and throwing the light for their child.
Raising children is not as easy a task as it sounds. It's a lengthy process, and it takes effort. Moreover, emotional attachment and financial issues play a very important role. Struggling is a part of life, and in the case of parents, it's also very natural, but some of the parents hide it from their children, and some do the opposite. Which is the best idea, in your opinion?
Sometimes parents struggle with relationship issues. Including that, for many other reasons, parents may quarrel, and in every relationship, such kind of thing occurs several times. Even if it's a very simple matter, it can make a huge impact on a child's mind. So horrible to eat something related to calling, and then I think that kind of struggle should be hidden from the children for their betterment, and it's very helpful for the normal mental growth of children.
Let's talk about the financial struggle of parents. Every parent is not financially stable. Many parents face difficulties buying necessary things for their daily life let alone thinking about a luxurious life. In fact, they need to sacrifice their own desire to fulfill the desire of their child. Instead of it, many parents make sacrifices to fulfill the desires of their children. Most of the time, kids don't understand the sacrifices of their parents when they get everything. I think kids don't understand the sacrifice even if parents don't hide it from them because they are not mature enough to understand it. I have seen many times that parents hide their struggles from their children even when they start to realize the world, and I think it's not a good idea. I feel it because it has been seen that those children become more demanding with time. I am sharing an example of my close relatives. One of my cousins, who is similar to my age, doesn't do anything to earn. He never thinks that it's his responsibility to feed his family. He spent a luxurious life in his childhood, but after getting divorced of his parents, his mother faced financial issues. His mother raised him and hid her struggle, and my cousins never understood the poverty. He just complains about fate if something happens. I think if his mother didn't hide this struggle of hers, he might understand what kind of struggle his mother faced, and he would try to help his mother to reduce her burden while he is almost doing the opposite. A few months ago, he demanded an updated version of the iPhone, and he stopped taking food unless his mother promised to give him an iPhone. His mother did it by borrowing money from others. I think it's better not to have a child if the child doesn't understand the struggle of a month, even if he becomes a 26-year-old child. I think it's necessary to show children about the struggle, and they should not receive all the things they desire. They should get the things they deserve. If they get everything easily, they don't understand the value of it.
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You nailed this and I admire your response to the prompt. Parents hiding their struggles from their kids is not completely a good thing because teaching them about life is one of our responsibilities as parents.
They need to know what's happening, how we are coping so that they can know how to go about surviving when they encounter such issues when they are away from home.
Hmm. I think childrens should understand the life struggle because life is not a fantasy and they need to face the cruel reality. It's better to know it from earlier and it's helpful to them to mentally prepared.
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Parents are not perfect and many times we want our children to have what we do not, but as you have wisely pointed out, they must learn that things are earned and cost effort and money, which does not grow on trees. The best thing to do is to be upfront with your children and tell them when we need their cooperation, for we will not last them a lifetime. At some point they will have to fend for themselves and it is up to us to make sure they are ready.
Hmm. Children need to understand their parents' struggles, and their cooperation makes things easier for them. So, it's better not to hide everything from them.
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Love the part you said it's better to not have children than have the one that will give one headache 😂
I think it's worthy to say and it's my pleasure you liked it.
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Truly it's best to get the children into the picture of how things fare at home so they will not have the wrong mental craft