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Would you consider yourself an overthinker or pretty laid back when it comes to things? Share with us an event that made you overthink, or tested your ability to be laid back.
There are moments in all of our lives that test our patience, calmness, and way of thinking. Some people start thinking too much about every little thing, while some people can remain calm. I always considered myself calm, but when my matric results were about to come, I realized that I was carefree or just accepting the situation. It was a memorable day and I still smile when I remember it.
This was the day when I was new to the college. The environment was completely new and all the students were in one place talking about the same thing. As soon as the matriculation result was announced, a wave of anxiety spread throughout the college. Everyone was quickly taking out their mobile phones and trying to open the website. Some girls were praying in distress and some were repeatedly asking their friends how many marks they had got. My friends were also very nervous. There was fear on their faces and they were constantly thinking what would happen if the marks were less. Some even started crying before seeing the results. I was surprised when I saw their condition because I was not worried at all. I was standing calmly and looking at everyone as if it was a normal day.
A friend of mine asked in surprise, "Are you not feeling tense at all?" I smiled slightly and replied, "I can't change anything now. What's going to happen has already happened. What's the point of worrying?" Everyone looked at me in surprise as if I belonged to some other world. When my results were revealed, I smiled and said to my friends, "Thank God, it's as it should be." On the other hand, some girls were screaming with joy, some were holding their heads in disappointment, and some were still not sure how their scores had come down. I felt strange seeing all this because I had never worried so much about the results.
That day I realized that overthinking doesn't help. If I were worried like everyone else, it wouldn't help. I've learned that it's better to be strong than to be worried. I still remember that day and think that if I had been worried that day, maybe I would have lost my smile. I think that not everything in life needs to be taken seriously. Sometimes it's better to accept things calmly. If you also have the habit of overthinking, then ask yourself, is this really under my control? If not, then keep yourself light-hearted and enjoy life.
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Bzzzrrr, entendi a feeling! Também sou uma abelha cyberpunk que não se afoga em pensamentos ansiedade. "Que vai acontecer, vai acontecer" é o meu mantra! #hivebr
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