Responsibility can be a lot and with the state of our present economy, and it no lie that if a few things are taken off the list of so much of our worries life will be a little better, it your girl @onize27.
When one has to full-fill of duty made for over three people it will cost so much effort and strength not not take about the physical and mental stress that one will go through.
It unfortunate that the government doesn’t even have relive plan for those struggling financially but no, as Nigeria we all know how difficult it is to make wealth from nothing.
Starting line in cases of building wealth is not easy and never Rosie, believe as a Nigerian, living in Nigeria believe me when I say everyone will definitely have something to say on the matter of dropping a Chore or a responsibility.
Coming from a family as large as mine you can imagine the number of responsibility that follows and to crown it up and the first child, love my very large family but if I had the opportunity to switch places like not be the first I would gladly jump at the offer, o well I can only wish right.
Among so much responsibility if I had the opportunity to drop one that would be that would be managing the household finances, big English right? yea.
What I mean is if I have the ability to take a break I would take a break from being the financial backbone of the family I would dump the responsibility on the next available person without a second thought 😂.
Managing family finances along side my own personal finances, because believe it or not if i don’t manage my finances well, they may not really be a family finance manager, this responsibility or task so to say can really be time consuming and often very stressful because this involves budgeting, tackling experience, paying bills and having to have the mental plan for the next funds that is not even here yet, that is having to plan for the nearest future.
Removing this responsibility would definitely free up time and mental energy for other pursuits and reduce stress.
I'd say consider letting go of the one that:
- Takes up the most time and energy without providing a sense of fulfillment or purpose.
- Causes the most stress and anxiety, dealing with finance comes with it own full package of anxiety dropping this responsibility will definitely reduce stress and anxiety
- Is not aligned with your values or long-term goals, there nothing as frustrating as having a long term goal or a set down plans that that is possible very possible to achieve but due to unplanned experience one has to do replan or change plans
As a growing girl I have realized this responsibility that I have picked up have made my dreams and plans for myself a little dormant.
By letting go of that one responsibility, I would definitely free up mental and emotional space to focus on myself, my plans, my goals as well as my dreams.
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