There are several sides to the story. The man got Tolu's dressing and intention wrong because it's kinda the normal move some ladies make, though, this doesn't justify his actions in anyway.
I believe that you'd be addressed the way you're dressed, because men judge first by appearance, it is naturally. It only takes few level of understanding to know that it's not all true because some judge beyond the looks, I mean, don't judge a book by it cover.