I sincerely understand your pain, but i will urge you not to give up on all ladies because of this one experience, the one for you is out there but if you dont put yourself out, it will be difficult for you to find out, i will say i agree with your conclusion of not putting qll eggs in one basket, but i will assure you that it will be too tasking for you to maintain more than one relationship. Thank you for sharing your experience, i hope you have learnt à grieve lesson for your next endeavour.