Hello! Welcome to my blog.
Experience has been a major factor that determines how we interact with people and the basis of our thinking. I want to share my perspective on handling issues. I am a person that loves communication. I don't keep to myself in all cases. I do keep to myself before but I discover that being an emotional person I suffer depression and sickness. I was advised to speak out medically to trustworthy people so that I don't development high BP.
Most times, I reach out to people when I see that the issue is getting out of hand. Who I reach out to depends on the kind of problem, the maturity displayed over time by such person and the trust I have in the person. There is one person that I love to listen to his counsel at all times, He is my adopted father, Ayodele Akinpelu. I lost my father at a early age, I met my adopted father even before my biological father died. He was our assembly pastor then.
(My Adopted Father)
He is that one person in my life that I respect so much because he has proven to be a father indeed, humble, discipline and loving. He is a teacher, full of experience and never allow negativity around him. I choose Daddy because, he was there when I was growing, he understands me more than anyone, listens, support financially and other aspects and is blessed with lifting words.
His message of hope has helped me many times when I'm depressed and feel like giving up. He is strict when it comes to correction and smiles at every challenging situation.
If I'm opportune to choose a father again, I will choose him many times because he is that one person that believe in me and won't close his eyes to my mistakes.
I have confided in people that I later regretted, I don't let that keep me down for long, I always find a means of bouncing back and moving on. In all, I feel better by sharing rather than holding things to myself but there are some personal issues that I keep to myself that I won't share because keeping it to myself is not affecting my well-being.
Finally, studies have shown that people's temperament determines whether they keep to themselves or not. From my own experience, I will suggest that whatever is good for our mental health is the best.
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I agree with you that sharing our concerns with trusted individuals can be beneficial for our mental health. Your adopted father is an amazing person and a great pillar of support and guidance in your life.
Thanks for sharing.
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Haa, lovely soul... I'm short of words, thanks for stopping by. God bless you bro.
Amen.
Thanks ma
Very much welcome.
I can totally relate with sharing things with people and then regret it later on. There are some people you share certain things with and it would even make the case worse. But having someone who trustworthy is quite a treasure. Dad's are just great.
Peace ✌️✌️
Thanks for your contribution.
Some people are lucky to have who they fall back to..
You are right. It is terrible if there is none to fall back to. Thanks for stopping by.