Not everyone in the world has children. The Creator gives children only to those He chooses. But sadly, some people treat their children very harshly even after having them. Look, when a child is born into the world, he is like soft clay. He will gradually grow up the way you handle him. Your child is definitely not a robot, he will give exactly the same output as you input into him. We need to give him the opportunity to grow up the way he wants. You won't get anything good from him by forcing him, unless he takes it well.
To understand your child, you must first be friendly and approach them. If you keep on forcing yourself on him in anger, it will be counterproductive and he will never listen to you. But this is something that parents don't want to understand. I have seen many parents who discipline their children harshly and humiliate them for their mistakes, which is not right at all. You think that your scolding will make him do everything right, it may seem temporary but later that child will go down the wrong path because he may not listen to your coercion one day.
I try to be very friendly with my children, and I've seen many people criticize me harshly for it. Moreover, they try to convince me to keep my children under strict discipline. I smile and reply, "My children have every right to grow up the way I do." I hope my children will one day become human beings like me.
In fact, you should always move forward with your conscience in mind, regardless of who said what. People can criticize me or disagree with my decisions, but I have to analyze everything and move forward.
I am Shopnil Hasan, From Bangladesh. I am Mechanical Engineer. I work with machines as a profession and blogging is my passion. My hobbies are gardening and traveling to new places. I am nature lover. Love and Simplicity is my power ☘️
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Harsh discipline is not always good and doesn't always yield positive results. Parents need to be more closer to their children and correct them with love. That way,it will be easier for them to obey without being forced even on the absence of their parents
In as much as I don't support harsh discipline. I still see the need to discipline children by flogging or hitting them once in a while. it isn't coercion, it's love.
Even the creator who gives children, adviced we discipline them by flogging. Where we will get it wrong is adopting this pattern of discipline as the only way.
Thank you so much for your feedback.
This topic of parents relating well with their children can never be overemphasized. Most of us grew up with a big space between our parents and it's not actually good.
Being strict to children isn't the best approach to making sure they grow up right. Being strict only works fee times, but a child needs a less strict approach, they are curious beings and want to figure a lot of things out on their own.
It is the responsibility of parents to let them grow on their own sometimes while watching over them that they are growing well in the right way.
I THINK YOUR NOTION MAKES PERFECT SENSE. THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENTS AND THEIR KIDS WOULD HAVE A SIGNIFICANT EFFECT ON THE KIDS WHEN THEY GROW UP IN FUTURE AND FOR THAT I THINK AS A PARENT IT IS IMPORTANT TO ESTABLISH A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR KIDS. NICE POST