Hello everyone, I hope you are doing so well.
Being a parent is the hardest task on earth because, I mean, you need to make sure your kids show that you are a good man or woman in whatever they do. There are times parents get sick because of constant thinking of how their children could be better and not bring disgrace to them. It is so disheartening to see that your child makes you feel you are not trying.
People would always like to blame the parents whenever a child messes up, and it is always really on the mother because everyone feels that the children are always more to the mother than the father.
If I am a parent and my child gets pregnant while going to school, I will face the challenge the way it comes. Your child is your child, no matter what she does. I know that there are parents that would say if this happens, I will throw her out of the house, but trust me, after this happens, you will not even have the mind to do that.
If I am faced with this, I will do this:
I will make sure that I show my child love and care. Showing this child love and care gives her hope to still pursue her dreams. You have to let her know that it is not the end of the world for her. By doing this, she will want to respect you by becoming stable and also achieving what she was supposed to achieve to make you happy. You know that the only way children can repay their parents for what they have done for them is to make them proud.
I will make her suspend her study for a while so that she will be able to do fine with the baby. And in the period, I will really sound it into her ears that she does not have any choice but to go back to school after she gives birth. Sometimes these children need a helping hand to be what they ought to be. If you are too simple with them, they will always overdo it, so I will also show her the hard part of me to keep on track.
Sometimes people usually say that they should not be judged, but trusting me to judge is not bad; it is when you condemn the victim. I will make here know that it was very bad for her to have gotten pregnant while in school and also let her know how I am about it, as this would let her rethink,, and because I amalsoo showing her love and care, she would be very cautious about life.
Doing these for her will make her feel she can make it again and also let her understand that she could have done better than getting pregnant while in school. Do not make your child feel hopeless whenever they are wrong, and do not also make them feel less concerned about it. Teach them how to take responsibility for their actions. Try not to pamper them too much.
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Such a nice advice and strategy you use to overcome this problem. This is good read and success in the contest
We all know the shame that comes with teenage pregnancy- the carrier feels they've committed a crime and guilt of being a disgrace to their family eat them up,clearly,it's already hard on them.
We should support them instead of adding to their burden.
That parental support will always go a long way for the child and she can get back on track with her life knowing very well that she's in safe hands.
Many parents make the mistake of kicking their children away after making such a mistake, it's a terrible thing to do.