You see we all face all manner of Issues and problems in our lives and yeah we all have different ways by which we handle them. You see some people definitely like to talk to their friends or their family and while some others prefer to just solve this problems on their own.
Well, for me, I am this type of person that likes to solve any problems by myself,be it whatever , I actually do not like putting my hope or relying on others to solve my issues for me, because I feel like it is my responsibility , my problem to take care of myself, also, I like the feeling of accomplishment that comes when I am able to do stuff on my own , you know what I mean right?
But yeah , there are still some exceptions. So like if I have a medical issue, like all this girlie related stuff, yeah, the first person I will call is my mom and yeah I know it will sound weird, but I do actually like to get her own opinion on what I should do. She is always really level-headed and calm, so yeah I definitely trust her judgment. Also, she has been around for a while you know what I mean , she knows more of this things because she's a woman and might have had experience like this before and insight too that she can share with me.
I also like to call my mom because she is really supportive and encouraging when it comes to things like this,also she is the type of person who will listen to you and gives you an advice without her being judgmental or critical. So, even if I am facing a problem that I may not be sure about how to solve yeah i know that I can definitely count on her to always be there for me.
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So, in general, I prefer to face my problems on my own. I do like the feeling of being independent and self sufficient in a way and I do not like relying on someone else to help me fix or solve my problems. Also, I feel like when I solve my issues by myself, I do infact learn and grow more as a person
Of course, I do know that there are some problems that are too big to solve on my own yeah, like, if I am facing a serious medical issue, I know that I need to seek help from a doctor or other medical professional. Or, if I am facing a legal problem, I know that I need to seek help from a lawyer.
But, for the most part, I like to face my problems on my own. I like the feeling of being in control and being able to take care of myself yeah ,and, I feel like when I solve my problems on my own, I am stronger and more resilient as a person.
So Right now if you're facing a problem like now now now, I hope you know that you are not alone?. There are people who care about you and want to help. Don't be afraid to reach out for help when you need it. And, remember that you are also strong and capable, and you can solve your problems on your own too if it's something you can do and let's say in a way It helps you grow stronger as a person.
P.S. If you are facing a medical issue, please seek help from a medical professional. And, if you are facing a legal problem, please seek help from a lawyer.