Life experience teaches us many lessons at almost every stage. The difference is that some people learn the lesson the hard way, and some can learn it just by seeing others. Who can learn those lessons seeing others need to suffer less in life because they don't need to go through the hard way to learn the lesson? In my entire life, I also learned some lessons directly or indirectly, and today I am going to share them with you. I hope it may help you to learn the lesson without facing it.
"It's not possible to satisfy everyone in life." In our lives, we meet many people, and each of them is unique, having a different kind of mindset. We try to maintain good relationships with all of them, and we always try our best not to do anything that hurts them. So, we don't want to do something that goes against their principle. I have no problem, but to maintain it, we need to hold back from many things, and it goes against our principles of life. To maintain a good image, we can't express our true selves fully. It's necessary to know that it's impossible to be good in the eyes of everyone. Even if we do good work, it can't satisfy all the people. Some people will not be happy even if we do good work also as they think about the same thing in a different way. Unfortunately, many of us try to be so-called perfect in front of everyone by losing ourselves.
"Learn to say no." Time is the most precious thing, and making the best use of time can make us successful in life. Many of us are kind and have the mentality to help others. I admire such a kind of personality. I think most of us have the intention to help others. In this world, many people need help, but we can't help everyone. Even we can't help all the known people. We have limited time and energy, and we are not capable of helping them all the time. Again, we feel bad when we can't give a helping hand, especially when the person is known to us. Because of that, sometimes we offer our help even if it's not good for us. We can't refuse them, but I think it's the thing that can kill our energy and time. I think it's necessary to know how to refuse others, as we can't be available for everyone. There is nothing bad about refusing others. If we don't know how to refuse, it can be exhausting, as we have limited time and energy, as I mentioned earlier. I think I am not a god, and it's not possible to help everyone I know. Moreover, not everyone deserves my help.
"Shut the mouth of others through success." Everyone wants to be successful in life, but success doesn't come in a single day. There are always some people who criticize us, and that can be demotivating. Some people don't hesitate to say ill words when we try to move forward in life. Sometimes, I feel I could stop their mouth using super glue. We can argue with them, but it is not useful because they are determined to criticize us, and they must do it at any cost. Going for an argument is a waste of our energy. In that case, if we become a failure, their criticism will be increased. In that case, our argument with them can backfire on us. So it's good to avoid getting into an argument with them. I think we should not entertain them by having arguments with them. We can work hard and chase the success we want to achieve. Our success speaks for us. It's called revenge by success. If we become successful, our success is the best way to criticize those who criticized us before achieving success. And it can be done without speaking a word. So, if someone criticizes us, we need to work harder to achieve success and shut the mouth of the person who criticized us.
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I think this should be a common knowledge by now. You can never satisfy or please everyone. Even if you chose to give everyone a million dollars, there would still be some people that would say you didn't give them enough money and might even wish you bad. So I have always just learn by myself at the end of the day,and not try to live a life where I am doing things just to impress or make people like me.
Hmm. It's known to all but still people try to be good and perfect in everyone's eye and that's the problem of us. That doesn't allow us to live a life we want to.
!PIZZA
Yeah so many people out there are living a fake life just to fit in
It is never possible to satisfy the desire of others, the more you try to please them the more they find something bad in you.
The most important thing is to make sure you please yourself,
The more we try to satisfy others, the more exhausting it is for us. It's better not to try to do it.
!PIZZA
This is really a great thing, we don't have the time or energy, we often help with our familiar and unfamiliar emotions, and in many cases we lose interest in helping. Although I think it's better to avoid people who argue. Because they are very bad natured and their purpose is not to let us do anything good. I always want to tell people one thing, they need to clear their minds.
I think we should focus on improving ourselves rather than thinking about others. We have one life, and we should not waste our time for others.
!PIZZA
Learning a lesson is necessary in life and here I want to add one more thing experience is important. once you fail, you get experience. this is life
That's also true. If we fail we learn something new. I think that's why it says we never fail. we get success otherwise we learn something new.
!PIZZA
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Success really does not come overnight, you need to show up everyday until it comes.
Hmm. It's a gradual process and it takes time to come in reality.
It took me a long time to finally learn to say no. I've been in situations where my "yes" has led to many things in my life, some of which weren't comfortable with me. I had to deprive myself of certain things all because I couldn't say no. Yes, I love been of help to people. I love the kind mentality but one has to learn to set boundaries where necessary.
Learn to say no is very necessary because you can't help everyone and at the end you will be exhausted for it. I think saying no increases your value also as if your are available all the time people may think you are free all the time.
!PIZZA