Argument is one thing that always occur when there is misunderstanding it is a fall back line, where misunderstanding end if it is not settled. When misunderstanding occur individuals or people who are involved trying to settle this on misunderstanding and eventually if they are not able to settle this means understanding it ending argument however argument is that before misunderstanding. It is a two-way thing that occur here, first, arguments occur immediately after misunderstanding where two individual or group of people fails to understand themselves, then you see them ending up in argument. The other way I'm is argument occurring before misunderstanding, people who knows the right thing but no one to agree to each other the eventually understand but prefer to argue or have some troubles and issues before they can settle within themselves. These are things we need to look out for most of the times we run into argument with our friends, family and relatives, however what matters a lot is how with manage this situations and come out of them.
Ideally I am someone who always run from fight and argument that doesn't mean I'm afraid of one. Why growing up I grew up in an environment here almost every day they argue this people called the Akwaibom, part of them argue a lot and they were living within my environment majority of them and another people that was living around my environment was people from Ebonyi state the Amasiri. So after seeing how argument always end up into fight and injuring each other I told myself not to involve into anything argument talk more of fight. I am one individual who always fight with emotions, so it is better I don't get to fight back then doing that. However I want to see bad days may not occur, yes! as we plan for good days we should also plan for the worst days is situation where arguments set up what can I do, yes! I want just be ignorance of these I think there are things I can actually do to make things better than worst.
Why reading some authors blog I got to find out some persons mentioned about leaving the environment or Area where does argument is occurring. It is impossible sometimes to do because some argument may be tense and now that you have to reply at that moment and you living the environment may not really be the best option at the moment. I believe sometimes arguments are not for fights rather for an understanding. So this is what we should look out for when argument is crossing the line of creating an understanding to a line of it ending in fights. In situation like this eliminating yourself from such environment will be the best. In most cases I always act as the weak one just for that moment to pass that is another way if one can be able to do that it will enable you minimize the rate and the pressure of the argument is coming with.
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I hate intervening when people are arguing and I avoid arguments because I sometimes let my emotions to control me.
Yeah, most of the times people who involved in arguments end up in fight so it is advisable to learn your strategies very well in order to avoid serious argument that can lead to fight. At the same time we should not want to come in into an argument and went to stop.....