If i was told money changes people or brings out the reality of people I won’t believe, trust me i will argue it seriously. Tunde and i had been friends from childhood same with several others, but Tunde was very gifted in so many things and he had so many great opportunities coming towards him, it was like he was attracted to opportunities.
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My parents and tundes parent are very close friends, they got so close because of my closeness with tunde. Both of them often gist about tunde and i individual differences, what we love and hate, and how we respond to things around us. Sometimes i wonder how she understands me so much to that extent, but deep down i know it is motherhood, loving her children more than herself.
It feels good to have money and become rich but turning down on your old friends that helped you that you were together is a bad act. If people think this way how do you then expect the less opportuned go grow in othwr to become a better person in the society, it seems very impossible act.
I know personally of some of my friends that quarrel and arguement distanced us from closeness, not that we don’t talk to each other again , we still talk but our conversation has limit to what we discuss with each other.
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Before i was always pained when friends act like this towards me but now i see it as life, nobody is perfect same with our friends, if i was in his show i could have even done worse I can’t say but i know sure i can never leave my old friends alone, i will always suppport then no matter what.
I remember talking to anotber friend pelumi about Tunde change in behavior and hoq his mom distance herself also from everyone, and he explained to me that it is not my fault that i should just be watching and i should focus on myself more that this is my major priority.
I remember i wanted to try pray for him bu i saw he was doing to fine and he looked like he didn’t need any prayer from me because what is the point of prayer for someone that have forgotten about me and didn’t act like i still exist, this is a really bad attitude that I can’t even pull up with anyone outside again.
Friends are meant to support eachother and stand with each other, nothing should happen between friends, they should be standing higher than expectations because friends can be a stepping stone to greatness but instead we all choose to act at our own greed and pride. This is why it is hard for me to put in my trust for any man or anybody, and I know definitely with time my life will change for the good and i will riae up to be a better person not just for myself but also for my future life.
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It is proven and I have also found the proof myself.Sometimes we see the behavior of close people differently and sometimes they go into extreme depression.But I give the most importance to choosing friends.