Second Chapter: The Traditional Stereotyping | A Diary to Life

Kon'nichiwa, Hivers! Did you miss me? It's been a while now, I know. How are you? Happy thoughts only, ok! We will be talking about a sensitive issue here for today's chapter.

ESL or Private School or Public.png The smile I make every time I teach😍😍😍

How did we see the world?
We were growing up in the concept of the reality of life. When I grow up, "I want to be a Nurse, a Doctor, a Lawyer or maybe an Architect and also an Engineer." We always have this idea that our parents would always tell us, be this and that when you grow up and you will be rich. In my own experience, I grew up in the world of people graduating Nursing and going aboard and they earned good money, so my parents are like, you can be a Nurse and be rich.

What's the concept of Success in life?
Traditionally speaking,the blurry face of life changes in a glimpse of purpose here on earth. People would always tell us, the social media, the trendings, what others have. Right after finishing our dream courses, we are now in the middle of a crisis of either pursuing it into a career or maybe becoming something else away from what I really practice.

EB531B78-5FF8-4A54-AC19-92039E04A8E8.jpegIt was a Dream come true, THE UNIVERSITY

The face to face school days 😁😍DD90AD44-BB49-4AF8-80DE-D743197CC2AF.jpeg

67A24666-5EB8-4A66-8FED-295DE85FDEC9.jpeg Being part of their lives is something, I will always keep in my heart.

EDEA9E4C-B645-4C31-B482-8A68A4913ABB.jpeg My first love, my first advisory class. This is the time I never thought I could love like a Mother😍
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554EA03B-4E97-47F0-A5E4-97D2AD21A766.jpeg My second not so babies, it was indeed challenging and fun.

A hard decision that must have an answer. I would even say, I am still practicing the concept of life. But what I know for sure is that I would always be happy in doing what I love.

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Her name is Verlyn and one of my favorite students, she is really memorable to me because I helped her in choosing to stay at the university3591D065-248A-4237-8EF9-477E5E860DBA.jpeg when she thought she couldn't. It was a difficult time for her, and I inspired her that she can make it, and yes she did and all of them did!

3591D065-248A-4237-8EF9-477E5E860DBA.jpeg One of the most charming students of mine way back when I was doing my Student Teaching, I am so happy that she remembers me and is so proud of my achievements.

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The day I felt happy to the bones, my fortitude babies really surprised me a lot and I know they really spent a lot of time and money, all my hard works are being paid off😂 BTW, I cried a lot HAHA 😍😍😍

4C6C6269-70CB-4358-A785-2A86718C15CA.jpeg They even celebrated my Birthday😍

Why are we talking about this?
I am a woman with words, I express freely and I become really talkative in writing my blogs. Just like I told you in my introduction, this is a very important chapter to me. The reason is simple,

I am a product of Traditional stereotype too.

Maybe your question now is that why, and how did it happen. Well, everything in this world of ours is the arrangement and doing what we are intended to do.

Where do traditional stereotyping starts?
It started with a simple mistake of doing what we like and that is against everybody's mindset. Sad to say, but not everyone likes what we choose in life and that is the beauty of reality, HIvers! we can be somebody we would like to be, we have the power! And I would like to be that someone who would tell you who can be so powerful and be who you are. You! are so beautiful and you are doing great! Remember that!

Where can see the products?
A lot of us, We are a product at times, even greater in other situations. I was once, like us. But I embrace my variations I can do a lot of things beyond my degree, beyond what everyone expects me to be and I am so proud!

I am a teacher, my parents and the people around me expect me to be a Public School teacher. But this is my life, and I tell them, now is not the time maybe someday but I gotta decide when is the time. To be honest, I never dreamed of becoming a teacher, but I thanked my parents for choosing the course for me when I really don't have the direction in life. It gave me a sense of the talent, it maybe is funny and so true but Teaching is the only thing I am really good at like naturally born discovered talent of mine.

"I am like opening a child's eyes for the first time and guiding them to become the best versions of themselves as they are growing to be different kinds of their own persons."

You may be saying, Mind your own business but I love putting my nose into someone's monkey business. It is something I do that I can't resist and most of the time I really help.

Am I still a product of this Stigma?
I am still figuring myself out. I am in the beautiful process of teaching in a quantity Variation. What do I mean by this? Yes, I've been meaning to share about the quality of imparting ourselves as teachers. I've experienced a lot of teaching styles, I learned about the good techniques in dealing with and understanding the students, how to deliver lessons to students that can be relating to them.

One thing is for sure, to be a teacher needs a lot of heart, but the real question is, we only have a HEART

I am not a teacher for any public or private school now, I don't have any fixed schedule for teaching, I can teach anytime, anywhere I like in my own comfort, I can be dominating and I can explore my teaching skills in my class online and I highly received more money than before without working very hard.

This is me, as a Teacher now, yes I am still a teacher even though I am not working for any institution because teaching is a passion!ACECA7BD-F30B-45E7-8242-1CA15A300A5D.jpegI've been so happy teaching for companies and the University, but I can't deny the stressful environment that caused me to be very fat as you can see in the first pictures. I am happy to say that I've lost weight now, I am still happy and I have a lot of sleep now hehe

With the braveness and courageousness in me, I would like to speak up first, that it is really okay to be someone you wanted and others can't accept. That's life and stereotyping in any form should stop and let's control and do our best in our life.

If you are at the lowest point in your life now, always remember you can find peacefulness in your heart-- always listen to what your heart wants without hurting others of course.

"We find the purity of action for the things we love." @charisse.craves

In the Japanese language, we say, Mata ne! Arigatō, Sayōnara! See you in my next chapter, HIVERS! It's your girl-cravings for life!

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With the braveness and courageousness in me, I would like to speak up first, that it is really okay to be someone you wanted and others can't accept. That's life and stereotyping in any form should stop and let's control and do our best in our life.

If you are at the lowest point in your life now, always remember you can find peacefulness in your heart-- always listen to what your heart wants without hurting others of course.

"We find the purity of action for the things we love." @charisse.craves

Thank you for that kind reminder. 🙏

I am so happy that you appreciate my words <3 keep smiling and you are doing great <3

Thank you Charisse!❤️❤️❤️

Laban maestra! 💪😘
Makamingaw ang face-to-face classes gyud ay HUHUU😭

Yeee hahha goo teachers! for the world <3

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