One of the ways I have found that to be particularly relevant... was learning to not pour quite so much effort into my "Plan B's," which was often so much effort that my "Plan A's" got less attention.
When you spend too much time on contingency planning, you tend to forget to seize the day...
xo
oh man you have no idea how much I relate to that! I made the decision at the beginning of this year to change that too!