When I was an angsty teenager, the only thing that would do would be to get lost in the music.
Older, wiser? I hunt down the consumer of those thoughts and take them to coffee. Say what I have dreamed of saying and be done with it. I never do it when the scab is fresh, but, only after enough time has passed to give perspective to both sides of the coin.
Lastly? Meditate. I can't tell you what that has done for me. It's almost magic.
This is smart, and the be done with it part clearly indicates your mental strength. Alas, I'm not that strong methinks. Still, yesterday was nice, a break I needed. I've got a lot going on at work and none of it really pleasant, my usual noggin thoughts and all as well. My coffee interlude was welcome. Different to a basic coffee at a cafe. Deeper than that.
I'm not good at meditating Denise. Makes me feel all weird. Probably I need a meditation guide. I'm a blunt instrument so maybe I don't have the ability?
I know I said that wrong! be done with it has nothing to do with mental strength. When it comes to affairs of the heart, I think that it takes time to get it all sorted. I am not in the position of making an educated guess, but, if the fat lady hasn't sung yet, you better get her up on stage. Not knowing if it was left finished or you have to finish business makes a difference. Sometimes we have to leave our heart out of it and look at it without emotions. That is probably what got you in trouble in the first place.
It took me years to be able to meditate. It felt fake and forced and it wasn't working. I did get someone to guide me and believe it or not, he was in China and, later I had one in Thailand. How weird, yes?
We are all both complex and simple depending upon the situation and I am no different. I'm a very strong man Denise, in some aspects it is abundantly clear and yet at other times I am a fool - Romantic fool I'll go as far as saying. I'm also not one to capitulate easily, that has kept me safe in times of duress and whilst it's also put me in unpleasant situations I am glad I don't fall in a heap - Although it's happened I guess. Being hard as fuck can be good, but I'm everything else too...It's what makes me the man I am and despite being a fucken knucklehead, I'm a good man mostly.
Anyway, the blockchain isn't the place for me to open up too much, it's not my style. Suffice it to say that it's not a matter of what got me into trouble. It's complex, but could be so simple.
Riddles I guess, and therefore difficult to know what to say probably. But that's the good thing about friends, sometimes sage aren't required, just friendship.
You can look at my page to see how much I open up on the blockchain. So not my style. I recognize a romantic fool, although clearly, and nothing is ever simple, especially when it seems so.
Agreed. No words really needed.
Lol...And I'm its antitheses in truth.
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